when a bloke meets a girl that he likes, does he dive straight in or play it cool???
2006-08-25 00:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u need to do a lil bit of both, u cant just dive straight in there as it might scare the women off and if u play it to cool she will think that u have no interest in her so as i say, a lil bit of both
2006-08-25 00:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by thedevilinsidemademedoit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is the same i hate it when these sort of questions are asked its like u brand everyone the same when in fact some might play it cool some might dive straight in, everyone is different so it depends on the person and also how well things are going with the 2 of u, u may be sending the wrong signals to a guy who usually dives straight in but because u could be sending the wrong signals he might play it cool. Thtas not a straight question theres no simple answer there are a number of things that need to be taken into consideration
2006-08-25 08:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most blokes would love to dive in, but then the girl would probably think your a psycho. So you end up having to play it cool.
2006-08-25 08:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by HelpMeOut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I play it cool for couple of hours then dive straight in then cool off again have a cigarette and dive in again this may last a couple of days until eventually I need to eat or drink.
2006-08-25 08:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is really up for it with u then see the signs and flirt ..then dive in.. if she's not flirting and no signs are jumping out at u then leave it a bit and see what happens...
all women like to feel attractive so pay her compliments and see how she takes them...say she has nice hair..if she runs her hand through it and gives u a compliment back you may well be on to something.. if she says oh thanks and walks off then definately not worth persuing.. it's good to show u r interested then back off so she can chase u back..womens lib an all that..if she's hot for u then you'll know soon enough
2006-08-25 08:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by wizzpa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do. I play it cool for about a year.
2006-08-25 08:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the confidence level .. I am a shy puppy so I tend to faff around for ages before working up the guts to say something :) *blush*
2006-08-25 07:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool and see how things go
2006-08-25 07:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much he likes this girl, what he wants from the relationship and whether he has been hurt in the past, just the same as women really!
2006-08-25 08:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IF MEN DID WOT LADYS WANT WHICH IS DONT LET HER TOUCH YOU 4 THE FIRST HOUR KEEP PUSHING HEL HANDS AWAY WHILE YOU PLESURE HER SOFTLY AND GENTLY AND SHE WONT GET OUT OF BED 4 A WEEK.IF YOU JUST GO WHAM BAM OH **** IVE COME AND SHES GONE
2006-08-25 22:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋