I have had serious concerns of mistrust with him. We have talked about these issues and I still do have a peace about them. I do not feel that he is being honost with me.I left him, telling him that I love him, but I do not trust him. I have felt miserable this morning. I enjoyed being with him so much. How can I move on and be happy without him? He stays on my mind constantly?
2006-08-25 00:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by gofigure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try getting out a lil more, places where u won't think about him, get out wit your friends, so it takes him off your mind. If you get out more and go to clubs and stuff you will meet someone else and ur attention will be off ur ex and u will be on with ur life in no time. Just realize with no trust what kinda realtionship is it? no realtionship.... so give it a try girlfriend, i know how you feel.
2006-08-25 00:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of the main things in a relationship is trust. If you can't trust him I feel like you did the best for you. If you love him your feelings just won't turn off the day after you break up with him. Your gonna have to give yourself alittle time to heal. Then you will find someone else. One thing is for sure no matter how much you love him don't go back to him until you can trust him because if you give in and things don't change it will be harder on you the next time you break up with him. Good Luck
2006-08-25 01:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by RJJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to fix the relationship. Did he give you a reason not to trust him? Did you ever catch him with someone else. It sounds like you are still in love with him I would suggest you see how he reacts and let him win you back slowly. If the relationship is over and you are sure you want to move on, nothing fixes the heart like a new love. Something about a new good relationship, but you have to have closure in a relationship and if you leave the relationship without good reason you may never get over it and regret it for a lifetime.
2006-08-25 00:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by bsure32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be difficult, but you will find that your happiness depends on how you feel about yourself. If you aren't happy with you, you won't be happy with anyone else. And if you can't trust him, you're missing one of the major building blocks of a secure, stable relationship. Go out with your girlfriends, find a new hobby, enjoy the summer while it's still here. And know that it will get better! Good luck :)
2006-08-25 01:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by JS820 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the same thing. i had to leave cuz when you are hurting with them its best to hurt without them. i use to think about my ex every moment but i had to put a thought in place of him each time. i still think about him but its not so bad now. really you loved him more than he did you. so hold on to that love and give it to someone who will appreciate it. men are just like that. its hard to find a good man anyways. ther are millions of women just like you are and just like i use to be. not anymore for you though. i bet he is somewhere feeling good. he probably knows you love him too. just let it go. how can you be with someone and dont trust them. take care
2006-08-25 01:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that you can't trust the one you love but you can love the one you trust. Just keep yourself busy and try not to think about him. You'll eventually move on. That's what I did when my boyfriend and I broke up. Just think that it's his loss he let you go.
2006-08-25 01:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 15:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i trust u is a better compliment than i luv u.
if u dont trust him u should not continue ur relationship,i know this dilogue might sounds filmy but its true that "vishwas par hi pyar tika rehta hai "
u should not feel sad u have taken d right decision,dont worry u will get much more good frnds than him
bye tc and al d best
2006-08-25 01:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you can't trust him, then, how can you be with him??? Time is your best healer!!!! Volunteer somewhere, babysit for a neighbor, read a good book, whatever.... But, move on, you can't go back. Once that trust is violated, its hard to feel the same.
2006-08-25 01:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love relationships are built on basis of mutual trust,if that isn't there,then its no use sticking together and hurting each other.
u have taken a wise decision and time is best healer of all
love wounds....dont pity on yourself....and dont spend ur time
alone....mingle with your family and friends and out there in
this world there is that special person waiting for u forever....
till then all the best and keep smiling
2006-08-25 00:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by r3raju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋