About 3 months ago me and her were really close, we really both liked each other. It was obvious. But she's only 13, and I had just turned 15. Well, people started talking about it, and she backed off. So about a week later, I asked her out, afraid of her backing off further, she said I Dont Know. I took it as a nice way of saying no, but didnt understand why she would say no, I mean, we were so close, more than friends. So she continued to back off, at that time she told her friends she might date me, that she just wanted to see if I could stick with her, cause i've had many girls. Well fast forward 3 months. Now she barely even talks to me, she seems to really like this other guy, and like I dont even exist anymore. I dont knowy why? I mean i didnt do anything to push her that far away. And now she is telling her friends she doestn like me at all, she just dont wanna hurt my feelings. Ok, heres where it gets confusing. Her and her mom are REALLY REALLY close, they tell each other everything. Well her mom likes me alot, she told me, that if she could pick anyone for her daughter to date, it would be me. But, she also said that her daughter was REALLY scared, because we were so close, and she is afraid that if we ever break up, it will totally ruin the friendship, which I can understand. But her mom said that if I really really like someone else, that i should move on, but if I really really like her daughter than i should continue to pursue her. I know her mom isnt lying to me, she would tell me straight up, if her daughter dont like me. Well heres the problem, I am so confused, i feel like I am putting this first priority in my life. Ahead of God, I dont want to, but I really really have strong feelings for this girl, and i just cant let her go. My question is, what should i do? I mean what do you think? Do you think she likes me, or she just dont wanna hurt my feelings, or what? I mean one day it will seem like she totally wants to takl to me, the next, she wont even reply to my email, that she sent the day before. .. Please tell me what you think she is doing, thinking about me, and what I should do if I have any chance left with her, I know I sound crazy, but , I really really care for her, more than anyone I've ever known.
2006-08-25 00:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i mean now, she barely noticicies im there, i mean..why wouldnt she like me anymore.. i didnt do anything to make her stop
2006-08-25 00:52:06 · update #1
I think she is afraid of what other people are saying about you and her. I think the reason if because of the age difference. But if hse truly likes you then she shouldn't care what other people think about you two. I really hope it works aout for you and her.
2006-08-25 00:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by AirForceChic8679 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K so it think that she is afraid of if you go out then break up it will ruin your friendship and she DOES NOT want that... and.... the mom thing... you can never trust those things... my mom and i are very close also... same thing i tell her everything she tells me everything... but... she has told guys before that i liked them when i didnt... just a simple misunderstanding... i think you should give her some room for a bit... once things calm down you two will be fine agian... trust me... ive been thru the same thing. good luck... you seem like a real nice guy.
2006-08-25 08:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, seriously man, 2 years is not a lot in a dating realtionship, so i dont know why should would tweak out about that, but i think you need to move on, if u keep pushing her shes gonna burst, i would move on man. If she won't even respond to an email, you have serious problems.. So u really need to move on or ur hearts gonna get broken, u shouldnt waste time chasing something your never gonna get. Thats like trying to get fairy wings its never gonna have no matter how much you want it, i know this must be a really hard time for you but please move on for your sake.... Good luck
2006-08-25 08:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already answered this question, look back, it was a decent answer.
The only other thing I have to say is, sometimes people don't feel the same way about you as you feel about them, no matter who says what, if she isn't talking to you anymore, she probably needs some space or isn't interested.
It sounds like you might have to move on with your life.
2006-08-25 08:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aight ***** listen up. She aint the only girl in the world but if u must have her then dont talk to her everyday or even everyother day.
Lay off and give her space. Talk to her but dont make it an everyday thing. and dont make it a pattern. U sound really needy and thts a turn off. when u talk to her be cocky and funny, act like ur #1 and she CANT have a date with u. if that doesnt work out go to ur nearest beach and talk to as many girls as u can. dont get their number. if they like u theyll get urs. but yea dont be a wussy either.
2006-08-25 07:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone she is too young
2006-08-25 08:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋