Sometimes I know he is having fun with his posse but when he doesn't answer my calls I became very irratable and angry, and I am always mad at him when he finally returns my calls. Am I sick? What do you suggest I do when he is unavailable?
2006-08-25 00:46:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are irritable / angry, that's what people call jealousy. Jealousy is not love and once a guy realizes that you are jealous he'll spend more and more time away from you and ignoring more of your calls.
Suggestion: Stop calling him. If he wants you, he knows where you are. And every 2 - 3 times he calls you, ignore it. He'll get the hint after awhile.
And if he is with his "posse" and you KNOW it, be thankful for that and that he isn't out with another girl.
2006-08-25 00:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obsessing about the boy! Give him and yourself a break! Make it a rule not to call him; let him call you. And so what if he's out having fun...you're not MARRIED to the guy! You young girls get so very possessive and don't understand that guys hate that sh*t. So go somewhere and make some other friends including new boyfriends. You can have more than one!
2006-08-25 07:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just figure he's spending "quaility" time wit his buddies, and go out and do something, or if you really can't take it when he doesn't answer call him at a time when u know he will answer then there is no fear of him not answering, like 7:00 am, well u know ur boyfriend, but just try that. If that doesn't work then maybe go over to his crib..... Good luck girl!
2006-08-25 07:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gve space 2 ur relatnshp.dnt mke a habit 2 cal him every nw n thn.if u call him 2 tk n see tht hez nt pickng up the phn 4 the frst time thn leave it n trty 2 chill ok.u will c he will cme to u whn he realzes he needs u.
2006-08-25 08:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by sania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find times that you are unavailable! If he wants you to be available then he should be available to you. Don't be too direct, just leave the hint by not answering your phone a few times.
2006-08-25 07:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by bsure32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the battery out of the phone!
Why do that to someone?!
It is very immature behavior & makes your BF not want to be with you!
Be aloof & he'll be looking for you!
2006-08-25 07:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD KEEP PATIETNCE and tell ur problem 2 ur bf ifhe luvs u he wil always pick ur cals and answer u bye tc and al d best
2006-08-25 07:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making him feel that you are desperate..... Let him do the calling for a while...
2006-08-25 07:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by thicksauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. He knows how to get ahold of you and he will when he wants to talk to you.
2006-08-25 07:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats okay.That happens;its happens to lots of people.Control yourself though!
2006-08-25 07:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋