During the day I am home with my sister because our parents are at work. It is summer, so no school.
Three days ago, it was her turn to clean the house. But she grabbed my crotch from behind, and forced me to do wash the dishes and do all her work! She was enjoying it because sometimes she was giggling. And she was not only grabbing, she was feeling them!!! I could not believe what was happening! I felt so violated and humiliated. At the end, she squeezed my balls anyway, and just stood there laughing, and then locked herself in her room. I knocked at the door and tried to speak to her but she did not talk to me. And after that I just pretended nothing happened, and she is pretending nothing happened too.
I am still a little sore. I did not tell my parents because it is too embarrassing, and bizarre.
Should I forget the whole thing, or should I do something about it??? Wtf?!
2006-08-25 00:34:51 · 15 answers · asked by Aguia_cagona 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I am 15, and she is 13. I called my parents, and when I was about to speak I just start crying uncontrollable, that was unexpected!!! My mother talked to her in private. I wish school starts soon. I just want to die
2006-08-25 23:51:59 · update #1
It seems that in school girls kick boys all the time. And they even keep score! It is like a girl sport. She was too scared to do it to a stranger, so she did it to me. I saw it a few times, but I did not know they get organized!!!
2006-08-26 00:37:25 · update #2
Tell your parents what is going on! I have a neighbor who also thinks this kind of behavior is funny.
If it too embarrassing to talk to your parents - then find someone you feel comfortable with. Talk to your father -man to man. Talk to a male Dr.. talk to SOMEONE. Your sister has GOT to me made aware that these actions are wrong.
You will also need a physical exam to be sure that nothing is really wrong with your body.
It sometimes helps me to 'dissassociate' yourself from the 'crime' and say as if you were talking about another person or as though you were trying to protect your sister. She can't be allowed to grow up thinking this is right. One day she will do it to someone else and get it REAL trouble.
If you have trouble speaking of it (which I can understand) ask your parents to look at this post. Once they already know it may be easier to talk about it. But you can't keep it it. YOU need to talk!
2006-08-25 00:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by helpme1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no don't forget it that would be worse thing.....you need 2 talk 2 ur mom when no one is around and let her figure it out, but if she does not try 2 resolve the problem talk 2 ur teacher when school starts.....there will be many things in life that will fill wrong and u need 2 go with that filling if it fills wrong it probably is....but some one could be hurting ur sister so u need 2 try and find help....i would not let this one rest....it is alot 2 put on a boy shoulders but u need 2 always try 2 protect ur family no matter what ur age....and it sounds like ur sister needs some help
2006-08-25 09:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
sweetie you have got to do something about this tell someone like you're parents or grandparents or an aunt or uncle or even an older cousin...........how old is your sister??? Is she old enough to know what she did???? And did you know that what she did is a form of rape????? Yeah well it is and its sexual harrasment. So you need to tell someone because you are not ever going to forget about it and pretty soon you will feel like its your falt and its not so please please tell your mommy or daddy or somone before thins gets out of hand and she does it again!
2006-08-25 11:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie.. do something about it. Tell your parents.. tell your grandparents if you trust them more.. tell someone.. You need to tell someone. You're not going to be able to just 'forget it'.. it's not going to go away.. tell.. and get her the help that she needs.
If you need too, don't think of it as telling on her because she humiliated you and made you feel violated.. think of it as telling on her because there is something wrong with her.. and she needs help.
2006-08-25 08:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Imani 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's crazy but she's watching too much cartoons, movies where is a lot of violence; tell your parents or somebody you trust. She needs few good examples to change the bad ones she saw.
2006-08-25 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by MV 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should tell your parents.If it is too embarrassing to tell the in person write it down and tell them also on paper that you are embarrassed to talk about it. Your sister has no right to touch you like that.
2006-08-25 07:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. You were molested by your sister and it's a very serious situation.
2006-08-25 21:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her round I'll have a word with her.
2006-08-25 07:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? How old is she? She's embarrassed too. Just drop it.
2006-08-25 23:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your parents or a trusted adult
2006-08-25 07:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by treky1999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋