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During the day I am home with my sister because our parents are at work. It is summer, so no school.
Three days ago, it was her turn to clean the house. But she grabbed my crotch from behind, and forced me to do wash the dishes and do all her work! She was enjoying it because sometimes she was giggling. And she was not only grabbing, she was feeling them!!! I could not believe what was happening! I felt so violated and humiliated. At the end, she squeezed my balls anyway, and just stood there laughing, and then locked herself in her room. I knocked at the door and tried to speak to her but she did not talk to me. And after that I just pretended nothing happened, and she is pretending nothing happened too.
I am still a little sore. I did not tell my parents because it is too embarrassing, and bizarre.
Should I forget the whole thing, or should I do something about it??? Wtf?!

2006-08-25 00:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Aguia_cagona 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

I am 15, and she is 13. I called my parents, and when I was about to speak I just start crying uncontrollable, that was unexpected!!! My mother talked to her in private. I wish school starts soon. I just want to die

2006-08-25 23:53:00 · update #1

It seems that in school girls kick boys all the time. And they even keep score! It is like a girl sport. She was too scared to do it to a stranger, so she did it to me. I saw it a few times, but I did not know they get organized!!!

2006-08-26 00:38:10 · update #2

17 answers

You definitely need to talk to your parents! This is a control issue for your sister and she needs help! You are right, your sister is crazy. This could be damaging to your health as well. Please don't feel too embarrassed NOT to tell them. They need to know now!

2006-08-25 01:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by lindaapril8 1 · 0 0

You have to talk with your sister about the "happening" and see what was it that made her do that.Maybe she is going through a phase like growing up and she has all kinds of emotions and since there aren't any boys around she used you to her pleasures.If this countinues on you have to talk with your parents about it although it sounds embarresing and bizare as u said but this can't go on.Its worth the try coz either way your not gonna lose anything just a moment of embaressment so what it will be forgotten afterwards.

2006-08-25 07:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by SugaPie 2 · 0 0

I think you need to talk with your sis and find out what the heck that was all about and tell her how you feel about the situation.Let her know that she hurt you and that you dont want to be grabbed there by her and its disrespectful.If you dont get anything out of the talk with her then go to your parents and tell them what happened.There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about.The longer you let this go the more it may happen.If it happened once it will happen again

2006-08-25 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think she violated your privacy and if you still feel uncomfortable about it, talk to your parents. If you've brushed off the situation and moved on, then I wouldn't worry about. Although I don't completely understand why your sister would do something like that. I wonder how old she is. What she did also indicates that she is very immature.

2006-08-25 11:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0 0

It sounds as though your sister got a little something out of seeing you sweat. I'm female, however if someone done me that way, I would knock the h*ll out of them. Plain and simply. Tell your parents, because dear sister does not need to be doing things like that. Sister has got a problem and needs help, before she does this to somebody else.

2006-08-25 08:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by luv2so2 3 · 0 0

First of all, you have nothing to be embarrassed about!! Tell your parents, and ask that she not be left in charge of you anymore. If anything ever happens like this again, and your parents won't help out, then tell another adult. That is molestation and shouldn't be tolerated. You are worth more than that.

2006-08-25 08:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0 0

Hey, u didnt tell how old ur sister was??
Don't worry, she's just growng up..May be just learning things and so on. I don't think its a big deal. May b bcoz you mite be the only person accessible 2 her. Just talk 2 her abt it and make sure she doesnt do it again.I believe she's innocent, just learning bit by bit.
I am sure both of u are gonna laugh abt the incident later on!!!

2006-08-25 07:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Bartimaeus™ 5 · 0 0

If what you are saying is true, you need to tell your parents. Your sister is sick and needs help. You also need to be removed from the situation. She should not be in charge of you or anyone.

2006-08-25 07:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOU! 3 · 0 0

Please talk to your parents about this. You didn't state your age or hers but molestation does happen in families and you shouldn't have to worry about her doing it again. If you don't feel you can talk to your parents find an adult you can. It's always better safe than sorry.

2006-08-25 10:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by purple 2 · 0 0

Tell your parents, since you tried to talk to your sister about it and she refused, get her attention, why should you be em brassed, she did it, totally not acceptable behavior behavior. If you don't tell it will only get worse.

2006-08-25 08:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by shortansassy 4 · 0 0

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