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During the day I am home with my sister because our parents are at work. It is summer, so no school.
Three days ago, it was her turn to clean the house. But she grabbed my crotch from behind, and forced me to do wash the dishes and do all her work! She was enjoying it because sometimes she was giggling. And she was not only grabbing, she was feeling them!!! I could not believe what was happening! I felt so violated and humiliated. At the end, she squeezed my balls anyway, and just stood there laughing, and then locked herself in her room. I knocked at the door and tried to speak to her but she did not talk to me. And after that I just pretended nothing happened, and she is pretending nothing happened too.
I am still a little sore. I did not tell my parents because it is too embarrassing, and bizarre.
Should I forget the whole thing, or should I do something about it??? Wtf?!

2006-08-25 00:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by Aguia_cagona 1 in Health Mental Health

I am 15, and she is 13. I called my parents, and when I was about to speak I just start crying uncontrollable, that was unexpected!!! My mother talked to her in private. I wish school starts soon. I just want to die

2006-08-26 00:04:44 · update #1

It seems that in school girls kick boys all the time. And they even keep score! It is like a girl sport. She was too scared to do it to a stranger, so she did it to me. I saw it a few times, but I did not know they get organized!!!

2006-08-26 00:38:33 · update #2

15 answers

You need to tell your parents, but take them aside, where your sister cannot hear you. What she did to you is a form of sexual abuse, although mild, it could get worse and more voilating. Please don't be afraid to tell someone that can help you with this. I will pray for you, as I was a victim of sexual abuse as a child, I never told anyone and the person that did it to me, still has never paid the price, although I am condemned to a life of nightmares.

2006-08-25 00:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

She could possibly be acting out as a cry for help. Someone may have been abusing her and this is the way she is getting it out. She may be choosing you because you are the one she wants to figure this out. She may also be a sociopath and need residential treatment before she ruins her life. TELL SOMEONE!Call an anonomous hotline and report abuse so someone else can investigate and find the problem.

2006-08-26 06:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0 0

I have never seen a little kid type so well, I am ASSUMING you are a kid. If so then tell your mother and father. No on has a right to touch you in your private area. You must tell your parents, don't be embarrassed, that why some kids are abused and never tell.....please tell....

2006-08-25 07:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Connie 1 · 2 0

Your sister is a bully. You did not mention how old you both are, but the next time she touches you, let her know immediately NOT to touch you. She is sick. And yes, the next time she does it, let your parents know, no matter how embarrassing. You could be helping her too.

2006-08-25 07:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 3 0

How old are you both ? You do have to tell your parents and they have to talk with your sister and find out if their is a problem with her.

2006-08-25 07:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 2 0

THAT'S JUST WRONG!!!!! is she older or younger than you? if she is older i think you should tell somebody, preferable your father it would be less embarrassing that way, if she is younger than you i think you should put your foot down and stand up for yourself, and id it happens again tell somebody!!!! embarrassment fades with time!

2006-08-25 08:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by srsuper 2 · 0 0

definitely tell your parents. talk to her immediately and tell her this is absolutely inapropriate behavior.

if you don't talk abou it with your parents and your sister nothing will change and you might suffer more.

take care

2006-08-25 08:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

tell your parents i think your sis needs a little help

2006-08-25 07:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah K 2 · 3 0

Why have you not done so far.Inform your parents

2006-08-25 07:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

that would be sexual assault. do not forget it but talk to your parents and her.

2006-08-25 07:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by koifishlady 4 · 3 0

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