I enjoy quietness, freedom, sleeping late etc... but still some times i would like a child, what should i do?
2006-08-25 00:30:29 · 23 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, you better really think this one over. babies are a lot of work. they aren't just cute and cuddley. they need 24/7 attention. personally, i think it is worth every minute.
2006-08-25 00:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A child might be a big step in the wrong direction for you if you still want to be out late and partying. There's nothing worse than to 'half-parent' a child; for example, just going out with your friends and leaving the baby alone.
But, if you've had enough of you're life (e.g. if you think you've got everything out of it that you can) then by all means have a child...but remember this...you WILL have to drop most social connections etc for this kid (which will, by the way, probably be the best thing that happened to you!!)
Good Luck
2006-08-25 07:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by AAAPokerJoker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you rather have? Your quietness, freedom, and ability to sleep late, or a baby?
You may regret one choice one day, but can you picture yourself thirty years later without kids? Can you picture yourself never being a mother or a grandmother?
You´re 35, so your age is already working against you. If you choose the second option, I say do it before it´s too late.
2006-08-25 08:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not to old if that is what you mean.But you seem pretty set in your ways.You might lose some sleep but most of us sleep to much of our lives away so that is not a problem.And when you watch your baby sleeping..now that is quietness.And when that 2 year old runs all over the yard and you try to keep up the is no better freedom in the world.Just search your heart your answer lies there.
2006-08-25 07:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by jean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all the things that u like will go away but come back in time think of that also there can be complication this late in life w/pregnancy now at this age(no offense) the biggest thing I see is SOMETIMES I want a child what about all the othere times?
2006-08-25 07:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Zarang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Its about that time. Imagine what tour life experiences could benefit a child, opposed to say a 20 yr old mother, or a 15 yr old mother for that matter. One day when your too old to wipe your *** youll be gratful you gave birth, and that will somehow make up for your boobs sagging.-I think.
2006-08-25 08:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Charleton Sexton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that if you feel it's time to have a baby and you can financially bring a baby up and give it the love and care it needs then yes go ahead as your body clock is ticking and as you get older you may find it harder to become pregnant. GOOD LUCK in your decision.
2006-08-25 07:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by blakeman6830 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, before it's too late! You may regret later for not having one.
But.. are you married in the first place? If not, then forget about getting pregnant.
2006-08-25 07:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Muffin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If married consult husband then decide
You wont have much time to make a decision
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-25 07:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping late will remain same when you have a baby.
2006-08-25 08:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by busy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurry up and get pregnant before its too late
you wont regret it
that child wil look after you when you are old
2006-08-25 07:40:38 · answer #11 · answered by HKJ_zizou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋