I've been going steady w/ my bf for 8 months. When we go out, at the end, we end up kissing. We watched a porn movie, and said that we should have sex...is it okay, or not? HELP!!
2006-08-25 00:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you need to ask this question, then no it is not okay, you are not old enough.
2006-08-25 00:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends. how old are you? if you live in a country where age doesn't really matter that much, nevermind. How old is your boyfriend. think carefully if you are underage, there is such a thing as statutory rape, or engaging in sex with somebody who is not of legal age. If these factors are not your concern, then the only thing important to know is how ready are you to go to that level. I'm not going to ask about love because we all know that is less of a consideration today. I'll just give you advice.
First, be sure that its your decision and not just because you feel pressure from the guy.
Second, if you're going to do it, make sure you're protected. Not pills, because although it can protect you from pregnancy, you have to think about diseases.
Third, if you're not ready or comfortable with doing it, then ask him to wait until you are. Don't be misled with whinings or guilt trips! its your body, your life, your decision. if he can not wait, then maybe the relationship is not that worth it. its a two-way thing.
Just remember, there's nothing wrong about sex, its just the reasons why you do it that counts.
2006-08-25 00:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are above 18 and mature enough to understand the complications there after , go and enjoy . If you are not mature and only want to experiment , don't take this foolish step , you will regret whole of your life . Wait for the right age and time to gain more knowledge and confidence .
2006-08-25 00:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be something you would have to decide. Depends on your age and how secure you feel with him. You can also do other things other than sex. To put it in other words, satisfy each other without "you know what". I am not sure what words I can use here, but I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Good luck with your decision, hope you make the right one for you.
2006-08-25 00:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how have u lasted 8 months
2006-08-25 00:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by tania m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont let a porn movie or you boyfriend decide for you.
u r 8 month with your boyfriend so if you had not have sex during this time there is surely a reason
try to question urself, is this guy worth to have sex with. to i want it for my personal plesure or to please him or both ( if it is only to please him then better wait)
gud luck
2006-08-25 00:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by newgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what you watched or did while together, if YOU want to have sex do it. If you have ANY doubt, don't. It's that simple. Don't let your guy manipulate you.
2006-08-25 00:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and his. Not going to answer because we have not idea of your ages
2006-08-25 00:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋