there is this guy that im seeig now for 1mnth and i really like him alot even though i erased his number from my phone , i see him occationally and we always kiss etc, but i want more from him i want things to be more perminant with us. Am i wrong for wanting that?
2006-08-25 00:10:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 pts,...
Seriously,... what do you think?
If you don't get with him and have a nice long talk, he won't get it. What do you really want, what is really important to you. Can you have what you want with this guy, or is someone better just around the corner, but you feel you should settle for what is comfortable at the moment.
Its easy to find a rut and be complacent with what you're comfortable with. But will you have doubts later, will you end up divorcing someone you hooked up with just because it was conveinent at the time. Will you be past your prime when you make up your mind.
We all have choices, but only you can make the right choice for yourself.
2006-08-25 00:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to want security in a relationship. In fact, i think everyone wants to have that. However, relationships are like a campfire, it is absolutely necessary for you to keep feeding the fire with wood so that it won't die. In your relationship, it is necessary for you to work to keep the relationship healthy and living, this doesn't mean the romance. Romance is part of the relationship but it is not the totality of it. There will be times when you need to be patient with your partner and there will be times when your partner will do something really offending for you but you will need to forgive him. These are what it means to work in a relationship, the same thing with him. Both of you, should work at it, to keep the relationship, worth it.
2006-08-25 07:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by mack-mack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong in wanting that but you should speak to this guy and tell him how you feel. If he does not want a serious relationship, then its useless to keep your hopes up and you can move on and find someone else or settle down and accept what he can offer you.
2006-08-25 07:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong..its a common thing i guess..but 1 to 3 months is the 'honeymoon' period of time in relationship..if u can make it more than 6 months n u still have the same feeling..it shows that u r serious..
2006-08-25 07:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you have to tell him, otherwise he will never know to make the decision if he wants to be with you or not? Since when do women have to wait for a man to make the first move? I asked my husband (now) to marry me. He was taking too long for me to wait. Married for decades.
2006-08-25 07:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why you deleted his number in your phone.. is there any particular reason? well.. for me.. if you think he's worth the emotion and effort your gonna invest with him.. then right on! just make sure he's not a psycho or something.. goodluck with that..
2006-08-25 07:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not wrong for wanting that, but you need to work out if it will ever happen... if not then dont waste your time and emotions on him; you could be out meetin the man of your dreams right now.
2006-08-25 07:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be able to rope him in if you hum on his wang
2006-08-25 07:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you erased him.....well,there must of been a reason.........hard helping,not knowing...
2006-08-25 07:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOSS IS ALWAYS RIGHT. You can't be wrong.
2006-08-25 07:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋