the think is that when we where going out he had met my bset friend and wich he dumped me for and is now going out with her and all but last night he calls me and says that I miss you and that I want to have sex with you again but I said no because he is going out with my best friend and I would not do that to her anyways and then he says if I was not going out with her and I was going out with you would you have sex with me so I answer that for him with a yes !! and from there he just keeps on saying that I miss the good times with you but I am not to sure what to do any more because I am going out with someone right now but I did not tell him that tho can anyone help me at all?
2006-08-25 00:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your friend what he has been doing...
he is a jerk... forget him, and move on... he deserves to be single!!!
2006-08-25 00:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, Take a look at what I have to say...
He wants the best of both worlds. He want you he wants her and soon he will be with someone else. He will never be faithful to you because he got the taste of women being attracted to him and he loves that attention. he will be a player of women and won't settle down anytime soon. Your best friend feel for his charm and his come on. She should have not fallen for him due to him being your man. She did not respect that, unless she did not know and you had given her signs that he was all that and a bag of chips. (figure of speech that he was the best you ever had and now he thinks he is God's gift to women).
He wants you back to probably compare you to her and her to you. He is using you girl and you need to let him know that that is not what you are about. He is a cheater and will always be. If you married him, would you trust him around your sisters and girlfriends? I think not..
Do you really want to stress over this guy and worry about where he is and what he is doing and when he going to be home? He is not worth it girl! Move on and put your priorities in order. If you lust for him back and he end up hurting you, girl you will regret it.
Consider this.. He may have a STD (Sexual Transmitted Disease) and bring it home to you and then you will have to deal with that for life and your reputation. Is he really worth the It? You think about it.. Make the right choice.. the decision is yours...What ever it is you will have to live with it.
Plus.. think about it this way.. Would your parents really want you to be unhappy? I am sure that they want what is best for you but they cant live your life but direct and guide you. That is if your parents are a positive influence in your life.
Girl, all else I can say is that you need to do is take charge of yourself and do the right thing and that decision can only be made by you.
I wish you well.
Peace out
2006-08-25 00:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I can help you. This guy is a losser. You need to get on with your life. He dumped you once he will do it again. Find someone that will respect you. He only wants to have sex with you, thats all. Maybe your friend is not having sex with him so he wants you for now.
2006-08-25 00:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are out of your mind if you are still want to be with him even for a friction of seconds . Just do not allow this man near your areas and thoughts . He is there to troubles you only . You must have some respect and dignity & individuality to stand on your own feet , pl do find another for your own bright happy future,if you are not addicted to his company .
2006-08-25 00:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an *******, he just wants to have sex with u. maybe u are a better sex partner than ur gf. he domped u the 1st time and after he has sex with u, he will domp u over and over again. so wake up, there's more to a relationship than just sex. Commit urself to ur current relationship, strive to make a future out of it and close ur ears to ur x's deceit. Also beware of ur gf, she might still snatch ur man just like she did e first.
2006-08-25 00:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you? H*ll he's already helped himself. He's doing the both of you. And you're seeing someone else? You just did to this guy what your ex did to you when he hooked up with your best friend. This guy is scum and sorry, but you're not much better. Here's my advise: stop giving it up to this guy cuz he'll tell ya whatever you want to hear to get what he wants, while continuing to do your friend. WHat the h*ll is wrong with you people?
2006-08-25 00:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she stole ur man she aint a best friend, but im glad to see u have morals which leads me to say tell him to go F*#k himself. he wants sex and only sex. if i was u id tell the person ur with now that ur ex has been calling but ur not interstead in him cos his a jerk, and that ur only telling him this because u want an honest realationship. good luck
2006-08-25 00:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants his cake and eat it . He's only got himself to blame he thought the grass was greener on the other side now he has lost you he thinks oops i made a mistake. Tell him to get lost he is a loser. You will find someone who cares about you. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-25 00:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by blakeman6830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that you like him and his words to you because they border on the naughty. Wise yup and realise what is happening. tell him if he doesn't stop you will tell the girlfriend and your new boyfirend and that youwere joking before after all you do not want a reputation do you?
2006-08-25 00:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by sarell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is asking for sex because he wants to be able to have his cake and eat it to. He dumped you for your best friend! Question why is she still your friend, and why are you still even talking with him?
2006-08-25 00:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. if you are going around wid some1 else then y didn't u told him tht yet ?
he is a jerk, and just want sex.. no luv n all.. so if u enjoyed doing it wid him, then u can carry on wid it. but get in touch wid ur frd and ask her weather he is going around wid her or not n wht's the prob in their relationship.
2006-08-25 00:16:12 · answer #11 · answered by lsnfathesametime 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋