Is it my chair that women are turned off by or what am i doing wrong! Someone help me out here thank you
2006-08-24 22:53:11 · 20 answers · asked by pimp48879 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for the replies this is the thing most women look at a person who can not walk and label them right off jump street I can not walk so i might be slow or i cant perform in bed or i have to have someone take care of me etc etc... i have been in a chair since i was 12 y/o married once dated a few girls but it all boils down to my chair And i refuse to believe all women are this way But where are they!!!!! lol
2006-08-24 23:10:21 · update #1
They are scared of what others think, honesty sucks I know. I dated a guy in a wheel chair for 6 months including prom! it was great! Me and him had a blast together, you just need to find a girl that doesn't have her head up her as s that's all!! You aren't doing anything wrong, people are just immature and unethical and look to much at the outside and not enough at the inside. My rule is everybody gets the chance, if you have the courage to come up to me and talk to me about anything and you ask me out you will get my number and at least 1 date unless obviously I'm with someone already then no. But everyone gets a chance in my book!!!
except bums!!! lol you know what i mean dirty people that the only thing I don't give a chance!
2006-08-24 22:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When most people see someone in a wheel chair they see a handicapped person, and not the person in the wheel chair. I had a very close friend who was in a wheel chair from the time he was 16, his biggest wish was that people would treat him like he was just another person, not someone in a wheel chair. Ever since then I have tried to ignore the handicap of the individual and just treat them like I would any other fellow human being. There is someone out there for everyone and I am sure you meet the right woman.
2006-08-25 06:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Harley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some woman are scared to date someone in a wheelchair because they worried about what people think when you are out together people are very cruel and hard to understand you have to find someone how can see passed that chair and see the person u are and their out their you just have to look for them good luck
2006-08-25 06:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might it be that you see yourself as the guy in the wheelchair?
from what i seen, women look at the man......i'm sure the chair is not for every women, but then again......being to short, to tall, to ugly, to hairy....etc. is not for all women.
might just be you?
i see a hundred other men asking the same thing and they don't mention a wheelchair.
she's out there.....it took me about 100 girlfriends, a 14 year marriage to find mine.
i turned around at work one day and there she was..........without a doubt in my mind.
up until that moment i sounded like you..
goodluck!!
2006-08-25 06:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why still in this position you r thinking for a women pls think about the other subjects go through it, do something great thing then no women shy away from you, My dear friend when we are short in some way have to be a great in only one side everything will be ok. Good Luck...
2006-08-25 05:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by gym1_ahd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not getting out in the world enough? I dated a paraplegic.Plus I go clubing & dancing with a friend in a chair as well.
2006-08-25 06:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by foxxynatasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people r afraid of what they don't understand. ignorance can be dangerous. my daughter started dating a guy in a chair and at first her friends didn't know what to say (not that she cared) now they know him and some of her friends have tried to steel him. they gave me my first grandson. i am so proud of her to look beyond the chair to see the real him. trust me there is one for you. i honestly don't think they r turned off, they just don't know how to approach and talk to u. if ur shy it will make it harder.
2006-08-25 06:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't doing a thing wrong - but many people go by appearence and don't have inner strength to handle someone in a wheelchair - i have no idea how long it will take you.
2006-09-01 15:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Qmarc Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are so afraid of the unknown and for the dumbest reasons they change there minds...right now they back away soon they will be all over you...women are strange
2006-09-02 03:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be they dont know how capable you are why not show them a little bit of whom you are...................
so that they will come to realise that the capability of a guy does not depend on his physical appearance but on what he has inside of him!!
goodluck!!
2006-08-25 06:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by glad4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋