2006-08-24 22:47:01 · 26 answers · asked by timmy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My first question would be, How many times have you met? and How much time have you actually spent together? I have been to Thailand a number of times and have had three g/f's there. The first was just collecting men from around the world, the second was just after my money, but the third, who mI have met twice and spent a couple of weeks with in all, does appear to be an honest, decent, hard working woman. Also a lot depends on what you both want from your relationship, where you plan to live, what you plan to do in your retirement etc. A lot could also depend on your respective ages. To be honest, youhave not given a lot of details, but in the end, the choice is yours (both of you) and noone elses.
\whatever you choose, I wish you both future happiness.
2006-08-24 23:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by geminipetelondon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are genuinely having to ask this question on here then the answer is no .. if you really knew for sure you wouldnt need to ask.
The fact that you do suggests that you are having doubts and that is never a good thing. You need to sort out your mind as to your feelings towards her and if you are sure you want to be with her for good, you then need to move on to stage 2 which is to consider the pros and cons of the differences between you such as culture, distance (potentially) etc...
Its a hell of a decision to make and can be the best or the worst of your life .. good luck buddy ;)
2006-08-25 08:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends - in that year how long have you actually spent with her. If it comes down to a matter of a few hours or never then no I don't think you should marry her. Find a girl that you can have a real relationship with before you think of marriage.
2006-08-25 11:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can work even if you havent known each other long me and my other half had a baby after we had been together for 10 months and we are married and hapy 5 years on. If its what you want to do go for it!
2006-08-25 06:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by kerrylonglegs9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it her who suggested getting married or you? If she still lives in Thailand and wants to get married, perhaps she just wants to live in the Uk or wherever you come from. If you have been together in the same country and you love each other and get on well together then I would say yes
2006-08-25 06:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not very long to have known each other, so maybe you should get to know each other better before you marry. But then again, I don't know you personally, so I couldn't say. If you truly love her, then stay with her :)
2006-08-25 06:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A decision to marry should be between the both of you. Not from public opinion.
2006-08-25 05:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen 2 ur heart and head(the real brain.lol)n do not dispair.if u were ment 2 be 2gether then u will have GODS blessing.no matter what other people say or do.u make ur own bed n ull live with her.no 1 else.u only have 2 please urself and ur bride
2006-08-25 07:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over time I've learned this. If you love someone, you just know it. You don't need to ask yourself, you just know.
This also applies to marriage. When you're ready, you'll feel calm and relax about your decision. It basically will feel right.
If there is any doubt, you are not ready.
2006-08-25 06:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you one of those fat bald headed, uncharismatic blokes who can't get a girlfriend and has had to go to Thailand to buy one?? If so then beware because why the hell would she want to marry you???!!! If you met her like the rest of us normal people, then I apologise and good luck if you love each other.
2006-08-25 05:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋