i have had about 4 relationships now and found that i'm really tired of 'love'. Though i still believe that there's someone out there for me but i'm lost, i dont know who is the one for me. And each one of my bf has something that's incompatible with me. Why???
2006-08-24 22:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by UltimateKitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are looking too hard - forget love and it will find you
2006-08-24 22:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel like that, and then I decided enough was enough, I wasn't going to look any more. I wasn't even going to try. I was done. I told my self I didn't want to date anymore until a couple of years to give my heart a chance to heal. Not even a week later I met my then now husband. I was so evil to him, but it was something about him and we connected. I knew he would be the man I married after spending 8 hours having a conversation(I was training him at work). He wanted all the things out of life that I did, and we had this amazing chemistry. I never felt that way about anyone the way I felt about him. Something about him trust me, you make think you were in love before, but there is a difference when you actually meet the right one. You will know and you heart will too! Just don't go out looking for it, it will come to you! Trust me it happened to me! Trust me the problem is when you look, you try to hard and whined up settling for anything or anybody. Never settle, lifes to short for that!
2006-08-25 05:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young i am guessing, just because you have something thats incompatible doesnt make you bad at relationships, just keep trying, dont just jump in the sack though, take your time and try to work on a relationship.
2006-08-25 05:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Craig M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably still young. Don't trip. The right person may come along when you least expect it. Also, if you're tired of love... take a break. Enjoy life BY YOURSELF and you'll regain the need for love again.
2006-08-25 05:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are trying to hard, or maybe you are too picky, not all couples are100% compatable, but most make sacrifices for each other, remember they do say opposites attract, don't rush things and the right man will come along.
2006-08-25 05:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are religious or not, but I am going to go out on a limb. Pray to God that one day you will find your soulmate. It may or may not ever happen. But I did that and it happened for me, and it was the first person I ever dated. We are still madly in love many years later.
2006-08-25 05:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will never be perfect relationships, only perfect moments....part of the problem may be not knowing what you are looking for in a relationship.
2006-08-25 05:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you should actively look for a partner/love. When you meet the right person you just know and its likely to happen unexpectedly.
2006-08-25 05:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is compatible. You need to know who you are better before you can find someone who will fit you. You can't fit a square peg into a round hole... you need decide if you are a square hole before you go looking for square peg.
2006-08-25 05:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because we are all different, that's what makes us people that we are, individuals.
If you focus on differences, instead on the good things, it could mean that you are not yet ready for a relationship.
2006-08-25 05:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing i am older than u, but i have th same exact same problem. well i mean with girls. i used to be such a hopless romantic now i really don't care. i know when the rt one comes (if she comes) i will feel different.
2006-08-25 05:49:42 · answer #11 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋