I have just started new relationship with my g/f. I broke up with my ex g/f a couple of months back. While all other things were okay in my earlier relationship, my ex g/f was never satisfied after lovemaking. In fact she was often irritated and spoke about me not knowing how to make love. To tell you, I am not exactly a novice. Nevertheless, I exchanged notes with friends and also gathered information from other sources to satisfy her, yet she never seemed satisfied. Perhaps this was one reason what we broke up. To ensure that something like this does not happen in my new relationship, I want to know from you girls - what do you expect from your b/f when he makes love to you?
2006-08-24 22:40:37 · 8 answers · asked by Geepee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I could tell you what I like, but I don't know if that will help you very much. Ask your gf what she likes. Take your time for the foreplay. Make her feel special and loved. Don't be egoistic.
I like being kissed and softly touched. Tell her that she has a beautiful body, that you like the way she smells. Don't be afraid to let her know that you may need her help to find out what pleases her most. Listen to her and watch her reactions to what you are doing. But most important: HAVE FUN!
2006-08-24 23:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by simse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice - If you wanted to satisfy the girl and she was not happy - there was something wrong with her, you were open she should have guided you. So relax!
Be open as make love - find out what she wants, and respond accordingly. Don't rush it and you'll do fine. You want to satisfy and that is the first step!
2006-08-25 05:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds like a right cow. You never tell someone they're crap in bed, that's just awful.
Don't lose your confidence, and start on a clean slate with your new girlfriend.
If a woman is not happy in bed, it's 99% her own fault. She has to be responsible for her own pleasure - it's not up to you to do all the work.
2006-08-25 05:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be in love with her, then you are truly making love and you cannot top it. Its about giving not techniques or gimmicks. Look her in her eyes and give her everything you feel, all else fails switch to a thicker condom so you can go longer. You need to be a giver, and being in love is the only way to make love.
-NmD!
2006-08-25 05:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spontaniousness. Imagination. Romance. Give her a full body massage to get her in the mood... be sweet... tell her how beautiful she is.... and dont say hot.... sexy is ok. lol... anyway... use your imagianation... no one likes the same thing over and over agian no matter how good it is.
2006-08-25 06:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl. Before making love, let her talk as long as she wants, and listen, listen, listen.
2006-08-25 05:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a girl but a guy with alot of experience, just please her before you get off. i dont just mean give her nipples a twist, i mean really please her, make her know shes special, make her know shes the one you are really into, make her know that you are going to do what ever you can to make her feel like a queen, make her *** first! make her know that she is your proirity above all else!
2006-08-25 05:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Craig M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
giving me what i want. but of cus, i have to tell him. be honest with her if u duno. if she doesnt like u because u're dumb, she's not worth it
2006-08-25 05:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋