My girlfriend just told me that she has slept with more then 25 guys, but lease then 50...Bad or good?
2006-08-24 22:28:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say that is bad.
However, who I am I to judge?
She could very well enjoy sex and sex with no string attach. As long as she is having sex healthy and she is being open/honest with you. I think it shouldn't be made into a big deal.
The main issue is being tested. Make sure she is clean AND these guys were not "cheating" guys. If she has habit/past of cheating, I would not persue a sexual relationship with her unless you want a heart break with an std on your list.
2006-08-24 22:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while the number is alot, the fact remains that she trusted you enough to open up to you. I sense from your question that you are uncomfortable with how many guys she has slept with, well the question is, are you worried about stds? her mental frame to have slept with that many guys or Is it your male ego that is wounded?
I believe you need to sit down, and think and know how you feel about multiple sex partners, before you talk to her.
And, do insist on using a condom if you guys have sex. It is better to be safe than sorry!
2006-08-24 22:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO cares how many guys she has been with !Its her past I'm sure yours isn't anything to jump up and down about!She must like and trust you enough to tell you something so personal so don't judge love her and be the best boyfriend you can to her cause worrying about something she done with someone else is only going to cause problems in your relationship with her and its pointless and silly there isn't a thing she can do about it and no matter how much you talk about it it isn't going to take away what she done.So get over it and be glad she is even with you!
2006-08-24 22:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOWN BIKE!!! everyone has had a ride so yeah not good. but if u really care for her and shes into u then the number shudnt hurt too much just talk to her about how u feel about the number of pp shes been with. try to move on from that if u cant then leave her.
2006-08-24 22:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if it was all at once or serial monogamy. Maybe she's a freak and maybe you like that. Maybe she was drunk one night and was in a train or a gang-bang. Maybe she's just real easy. Either way you better wear a jimmy hat and get her tested.
Maybe she's a porn actress. I think they tend to keep clean for professional reasons and you'd have less to worry about. Maybe she's a prostitute... if she's high class then congrats, they usually don't go domestic, but she might be a street skank so better check.
2006-08-24 22:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your call, but don't judge her. I mean if she had the confidence enough to tell you that then she must really have deep feelings for you. So don't mess it up by going all jealous/hypocritical type on her, and bring down her confidence so she feels like a whore or something. Just say how many you had and move on. Or just close the topic period.
2006-08-24 22:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a whore go get tested immediately if your clean its cool, as long as she ain't sleeping around on you. depends on how you feel about it really does it bother you or are you just bored? seriously though if your in a small town she's had sex with many different people in a small place so everyone knows how she is bed which sucks cuz you have nothing to tell about your girlfriend and how awesome she is in bed cuz everyone already knows...bummer huh?!
2006-08-24 22:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you with her? The past is past. I've had my fair share of men ranking up there too, but Since I met the man I'm with, I've been faithful to him for 7 years and plan to be for the rest of our lives. Just ask her to get tested for V.D.
2006-08-24 22:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Spookshow Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it really matter? i bet you asked and she didnt want to say so you pouted and made her feel bad right? i can personally say that i went from 45 to 125 in less than a year, does that make me a bad person? or someone that got out of a loveless relationship and had alot of fun?
2006-08-24 22:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Craig M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Its up to her. If she is being careful and enjoying herself... A guy that sleeps with 25 girls is a Stud so why is it assumed a girl that enjoys herself is bad?
2006-08-24 22:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋