So what happen was stress of bills the last two weeks and then he got distant and started sleeping on the couch. then i saw personal ads that he was looking through and my heart dropped. What did i do wrong? why would he look through those ads? i have been with him for 9 months i have a little boy that he's been raising and i just fon't get how he can sy he still has feelings for me but he can't be with me? He's letting me stay in the house we have together tell i can get my own..... does that mean that there might be a chance again?
2006-08-24 22:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been rude enough to break up. He needed a break...means he needed a break from you.
Be happy that finally you're out of it.
2006-08-24 22:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start looking for a place of your own... this guy doesn't want you anymore. A bit obvious though, i might say, didn't you get it when you caught him reading personal ads and sleeping on the couch?
He's through. Good luck, you can do much better than him, girl.
2006-08-24 22:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by julsgene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy girl beilive me go out meet some new people. me and my hubby before we end up getting married broke up.i was sick the lies and just and hole lot of things.the girl i sayed he was running around on me with well let say the day i moved out she moved in lol. he sayed that it didnt happen that way but yeah it did. he moved her and her child in to the house the very day i moved out.i started dating someone few weeks later he got pissed started calling me. and i told him we need to talk. we talked for and bit i meet him at his house. well let say now i lost and good man and i am with my x because we have and lil girl together now. dont get me wrong i love my x and were married now i just dont feel he has the same feelings for me.i think he know he lost something good and the only way he thought he could get me back was getting me pregnant. pls run dont look back find someone who truely cares for you and your baby. dont end up like i did unhappy. my hubby now talks about xgirls having sex with them makes me feel so badly i wont even have sex with him cause i think he think about his xgirl friends. i cook, clean, watch my lil girl and work. he sits on the computer his days off he only works 3 days a week .the other 4 he sit in front the computer playing golf all day in till like 3 am . i well not leave my lil girl with him any more couse she 3. i come home he sitting on the computer she outside by her slef. so now i have to work cause were on the vage of lose everything cause he lays out work. and i also have to pay and baby sit to watch my lil girl that way i know she being watched.
good luck hope you take my advice
we had dated 2 years before this happen all together we been together 5 years marred for 2 of these.
2006-08-24 22:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~sigh!!!~
The best way to handle your question is to answer it the way you asked.
Your EX-boyfriend broke up with you saying he needed a BREAK. A break means that you dissolve the YOU & HE relationship. Since the period of time is unspecified it can take FOREVER.
Summarily, it's over (at least for now).
Word of advice; MOVE ON!
2006-08-24 22:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by dandigijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup mamas its time to say adios. Most likely that man wants something new. Tell him to keep it real with you because thats something that men dont do so good. In my opinion I doubt theres a chance, but ya neva know. Think postive.
A BREAK= I wanna try something new
2006-08-25 01:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by la negra tiene tumbao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U keep on drawing from his emotional atm without putting in any.
He is emotionally bankrupt
How long it takes is depends on how fast u can pay ur debt and fill in the account again.
2006-08-24 22:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe he's fed up with u..have a talk with him, gently, n try to reason things out. u moving out, is it the best solution for the problem? ask him if there's anything u can do to salvage the relationship. if he has stopped loving u, then u'll have to move on. be strong n good luck..
2006-08-24 22:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boot his butt out, find a real man that is interested in only you and move on. dont deal with his mood swings, youve only been in a relationship for 9 months, thats nothing!
2006-08-24 22:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Craig M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! If he cared about you he would never want to be away from you so the fact he wants a break says it all.
2006-08-24 22:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long does it take? Long enough for him to find some strange and get tired of it and come back.
2006-08-24 22:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Flip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋