A conversation with my boyfriend as follows:
Him: You ready to get my name tattoo'd on your body?
Me: Nah-uh
Him: Say word? You won't? I want to get your name on my chest.
Me: I wouldnt want you to.
Him: Wow. (Silence)
Me: I dont know it just seems like everyone I know that got their mates name tattoo'd on them, broke up within a week thereafter. I think it's some kinda jinx.
Him: Wow, you just shot me down completely.
Me: Are you saying you were dead serious about this? You know damn well you wouldnt do something like that, lol.
Him: I'm dead serious, I'd do it because I love you that much, and even if we did god forbid fall apart, You'll always be with me forever, vice versa. I never asked anyone to do this before and you know I have 3 tatt's already. Wow. (More silence)
Me: I'm not against the concept baby, but like I said I felt it was a jinx. I didnt mean to shoot you down or anything. END OF CONVO.
This really bothered him. He really seemed hurt. Was I wrong??
2006-08-24 21:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by ڒαиìє's ɠσт α ɠυи 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you did the right thing to stick to your way of thinking. He should respect your decision, although for him it seemed that it was his way of showing you how much he loves you.
What if god forbid you break, what girl would want a guy with the name of his ex tatooed on his chest?? I wouldn't!!!
2006-08-24 22:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you were wrong - if you don't want to get it done then you shouldn't feel pressured. It's not like a piercing which you can just let close up if you change your mind. He needs to understand that you choose not to do this.The only name I would get tattooed would be my children's. They are definitely forever!! I had a partner who had an ex's name on him and everytime we made love I had to look at the name "Debbie" across his chest! NOT a turn on I can tell you!! Is there another way which you could show him how much he means to you without having to do this? Good luck!! I hope he ends up seeing it your way!! :)
2006-08-25 05:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. You see, its never been a proven fact that if you love someone you have to have physical evidenced. Remember that love for all its purposes and intent means respecting and understanding each other. Now, if your boyfrirend feels that its his way of showing his love to you then let him do it. However, you can not be forced to do the same just to show your love to him.
I think you have to tell him seriously of what is your idea of love and by not following his request does not necessarily say that you don't love him.
2006-08-25 05:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by jlaniwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the tatooo. However have it done in a way so that if something goes wrong between you 2 and break up you can turn the name into something else. Options are good!
2006-08-25 05:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by triedonlyonce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's you're body & tatt's are forever. Just because you don't have their name tattoo'ed on you somewhere doesn't mean you don't love the person. That's a ridiculous analogy.
2006-08-25 05:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER tattoo someones name( unless its your kid name ) on your body
2006-09-01 23:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were standing by your opinion, which is a good thing.
2006-08-25 05:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Vanguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you wre not wrong
2006-08-25 04:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BIG NO
2006-08-25 05:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋