2006-08-24 21:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by tropical_nights89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
I do not chase looks, heck 'attractive' people are a dime a dozen but people I feel comfortable with and can have a long and laughing conversation are not. Lust is easy to inspire, genuine affection much harder.
2006-08-24 21:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Vanguard 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
p0zorr0go do you realize love involves sex don't you?
Do you realize that sex is very influenced by what we see and if we find our partner is "attractive" or not?
The sexual part is also what can differentiate between your male best friend and your bf/lover/husband... you definition of a man being "shallow" because they consider appaerance a crucial factor in a love relationship just shows that you are really missing the all point of it.
My answer to the original question is.. yes I would date a chubby girl if she turned me on... did it happen? yes. Does it happen often? no.
Men do like different things.. surely most men would love the typical california blonde with big boobs.. but there I am loving small asian girls... some love different skin tone and so on.. some like chubby.. but saying "it doesnt matter" "it's all personality" is really trying to be politically correct in a stupid way.. yes I might have a great dinner out, a fantastic long talk about something incredibly smart.. but at the end of the date.. if my "jimbo" doesnt stand up what am I going to do? Explain him that she's got a very nice personality? lol... it's much easier and safer to make sure jombo likes her in the first place.
2006-08-25 05:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by kunosayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a very good question because there are
a LOT of men out there that don't care how much
you weigh.. and thats the way it should be.
I'd never want to date a guy who was so shallow
as to judge me based on what I look like (unless
you have tons of pimples or gross stuff like that)
A real man will love you for who you are on the
inside. And thats the way it is.
Any other man who would reject you based on your
looks is just a jerk and you didn't need him anyway.
2006-08-25 04:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Starlight*Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily men like all different sizes and shapes, just as women do. What's attractive about someone (to me anyway) is a combination of how much care they've taken over their appearance (and I don't mean loads of slap), how confidently they carry themselves as well as how pretty I think they are - which is different for everyone. Size is only a small part of the equation.
If you're not happy with your size, that's likely to affect your confidence levels and possibly be evident in your body language. Try not to be hung up about it or, if it bugs you enough, do something about it.
In direct answer - I have dated girls of all shapes and sizes, each one gorgeous and sexy in their own right.
2006-08-25 05:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, I love chubby women... but the personality has to be right..
2006-08-25 04:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what one is looking for - appearance or inner beauty, and usually these 2 qualities don't come together :-). Other factors to consider as well - compatibility, mutual interests etc. If all fits, who cares about size?
2006-08-25 04:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. I really intended to have have a relationship, but things didn't work out that way. I was young immature and selfish. I even went out with her girlfriend. Be careful with the people you go out with. Always think with your head but act with your heart.
Take care.
2006-08-25 05:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by RCP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes, I love girls with some nice hips to grab onto while making love, but really it comes down to is she a nice person? is she someone that i can have a conversation with and not feel like she doesnt understand what im talking about?
2006-08-25 05:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Craig M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would...I am a good looking guy, but not shallow, i go more for personality. but i have found an attraction for bbw, and they have more values(some). but to answer your question, it all depends on the guy, most are insecure about it, but deep down i think a lot would.
2006-08-25 05:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by eckoman73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have found that slightly heavy girls and women have a higher response level to tactile input.
2006-08-25 05:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Fred E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋