what can i do?i lost my virginity.
2006-08-24 21:41:58 · 27 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you can choose to remain abstinent now until you know you are ready - and that is ok. Maybe he forced you into it or pressured you and you knew inside it wasn't what you wanted to do so now you feel guilty and maybe even ashamed - regret.
We all make mistakes. Save sexual intercourse and relations for those that you are in love with - it is an expression of the love that you feel for someone and should not be a casual thing. It's okay though - you can't take it back now but you can choose to wait now - cheer up - forgive yourself - it will be ok. :o)
2006-08-24 21:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try the Lost & Found Dept. at school?! Lol!! Babe I don't know what you expect to hear for this question but there ain't no way of going back. That doesn't mean you have to keep doing it though. If you truly regretted it then just don't do it again until you feel you are ready. If your man doesn't understand then maybe you're better off without him because I can guarantee if you keep doing it just to stop him leaving you then you're going to end up with a very low opinion of yourself. Look after number 1 - you are what matters now. Take care and best of luck with everything life throws at you. :)
2006-08-24 21:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to ask yourself why you regret having sex with him.
Was it that you are not ready yet?
Was it that you felt he isn't the "one" after all?
Was it that you feel you too young?
Is it that you just not "feeling it" with him on that level?
Just so many questions to ask yourself to figure out why you regret having sex with your boyfriend.
Then you need to figure out how you can solve this situation. If you feel you were not ready yet, then explain that to him and make a point you two should not have sex until you both are.
If you feel it wasn't the best chioce, I do recommend not having sex until this emotion you feeling is solved.
Only thing you can do hun. I went through the same thing with my first sex partner who i was with for 3 years. Turned out he was opposite person than I could imagine. So, make best judgment call.
Don't look at it as a mistake. Look at it as a learning experience. You can't regain it back. However, you can regain your sense about it, so you won't keep on regretting each time after wards.
2006-08-24 21:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can truely do nothing your virginity was a one time thing, giving it away was a time thing. I guess you regret it cuz you wonder if giving it to him was the wrong thing but ask yourself these questions. 1. do you love him? 2. did you feel safe and loved with him?. 3. did he pressure you into it or did he give you space and time to think about it? 4. do you want to do it again with him?. Once you think over all of these questions you might have an answer but dont sweat over it cuz whats done is done just learn to live with it and get one with your life.
2006-08-24 21:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's nothing u can do to get it back..why r u regretting ur actions? virginity is something special n u should feel proud that its lost to ur boyfrind, n not just any guy on the street...accept the fact n live with it...not being a virgin does not prove anything..stop regretting ok?
2006-08-24 21:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to get married? Next, even if it's a yes or no, act according to the circumstances and answer;"yes,no"
Next, tell him that you're already ain't virgin after the incident which happened and begin to tell him it's reality. Get married quickly to play safe.
Virginity is Dignity also. Since you're a woman, take it seriously too. You're losing your "..." Acting as if you running away from reality makes your faith in your Boyfreind go down. Simply ask him if he's serious about you.
2006-08-24 21:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH gawd, I wonder how many people are reading this and thought exactly the same thing at one time.
Yes all men are B's.
Therer is little you can do, just make sure you don't have any little babies coming and no nasty rashes. Sorry to be so blunt, I really don't mean to offend but you need to be careful these days.
2006-08-24 21:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all these answerer's saying you shouldn't regret it but they can't tell you how to feel. If it makes you feel bad, then TO YOU it is probably not right.
Tell your boyfriend how bad it makes you feel afterwards and see if you can't compromise on waiting till you feel more comfortable with it before you continue it.
It is a terrible feeling to suffer from regret. You can't take back what's done, but you can change it from this point on.
2006-08-24 21:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will forget about virginity and start focusing on enjoying a healthy sex life. 'Cuz guess what, now that you're rid of it, virginity is one thing that you never have to worry about ever again.
2006-08-24 21:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens... first time is usually disappointing but belive me I know girls waiting for the right guy and at the end they regret not having sex before
2006-08-24 21:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋