I found out that he cheated on me a long time ago but I cannot seem to forget about it. I have given all my love to him but he betrayed me. He didn't even say sorry. When I said I needed a break he only said he'll miss me... I miss him too. Did I make the right decision? I'm so sad and lonely. help
2006-08-24 21:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by yodge_123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you did! as what you said you want a break, go ahead. i once broke up with my boyfriend before & to get over him i went to a salon & had a make-over, went shopping with my friends, watched a cartoon movie (or a comedy movie to make me laugh), i also played scrabble with my sibblings (bonding time w/ my family). it sounds so hard to forget a person whom you loved so much but as they say time heals all wounds. just keep yourself busy so that you won't be able to remember him. go on group dates. but i suggest don't go into another relationship yet. give yourself space. don't make him see you sulk coz it will only increased his male ego. make him see that it was never your loss but his when you separate ways. there's more in life to discover than mope on a person that doesn't deserve your love & attention. go girl you can do it.
2006-08-24 22:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by willow marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this out baby love. I totally understand how your feeling, But no you didn't make the wrong decision! Cheating is not ok, and if you were to stay with him you wouldn't trust him which would make you question his every move. So just give yourself some time, and your heart some time to heal. Then maybe just maybe you guy's can at least be friends.
2006-08-24 21:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a total opposite situation with you. My bf said I cheated on him and I really did.... now he has moved out and say we shall take a break. I dont seems to felt guilty on what I have done but its kinna relieve for me when he found out. Perharps your bf is feeling like me now.... Of course I do missed him, it is because we have been together for so long and we so used to each other.
Take this chance to reconsider your relationship. He might not be the one you can spend your life with....
2006-08-24 21:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats on you and you tell him you want to take a break? Get a clue, girl. This guy is an a$$hole. Have some self-respect! The hurt will go away, and you will be better off without this pr!ck.
2006-08-24 21:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ARE still guys that don't cheat! I am still looking for a gal that doesn't cheat. Not looking for a relationship, just got out of a 6 year, but if you want to chat.... kunkko5@yahoo.com
2006-08-24 21:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by kunkko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and sorry about that.
Dont rush into another relationship yet and its better to try reflecting on your past relationship.
Good luck
2006-08-24 21:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by E0844 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can chat with me, and then you wont be lonely
2006-08-24 21:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another
2006-08-24 21:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋