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me and my girlfriend julie have been together for about a year. now all of a sudden she wants to take a break. she is confused with where she is at this point in her life. she wants to figure her life out. should i wait for her? shes hurting me becuase she doesnt even talk to me about it. im just hanging here. with no clue as to what will happen. whad should i do?

thanks for your input.
tim bonsiano

2006-08-24 21:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by timbo345 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

you see if this is happening its not her life she is confused about there is alot more going on, this is all to common there is someone else and she is just waiting to see if they will take her and it will work out before she tells you

2006-08-24 21:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0 0

same just happened to me with my boyfriend, so i know the feeling.

i know that waiting does not help. it only makes you sadder.

what works for me is focusing on other things for now and give him the time he needs to figure out his problems and what he wants.

i think that might be what your girlfriend needs too.. being able to make decisions just on her own, without the influence of somebody else. maybe you also know the feeling that you should first be able to cope on your own before you commit yourself to a serious relationship and make all decisions together.. it's a good sign actually (well, not necessarily for your relationship but for her as a person...)

the trouble is.. it might take some time.. you can't expect her to figure out her life in two weeks.. well, as i said, give her some time for herself and after a while (few weeks) she might be willing to talk to you.

2006-08-24 22:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by 7!na 2 · 0 0

My friend,let me ask you a question. Are you in a right age to have a girl friend? if so, first think of how long you will be staying with your partner.I advis you if you want your girl friend only as a girl friend and enjoy sometime, you better leave her alone.But, if you think her as a life long partner, so try to change her mind to be with you if she feels in the same way.She might have found your relation with her may be temporary.In the contrary she needs you only for temporary friendship.If so you better leave her and build healthy relationship with another girl.

2006-08-24 21:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0 0

Run like the clappers my friend - she isn't confused at all, but is trying to let you down gently. She wants space from you while she figures *her* life (not yours as a couple) out - this to me suggests that she wants to consider *her* options *without you* and is planning the rest of her life *without you*... I've been there myself before and the best option I've taken was to disconnect completely, stop seeing her altogether and sever all contact, it will be tough, but you'll be better for it. Best of luck Tim.

2006-08-24 21:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ky 1 · 0 1

doubt is and end, forget and march ahead, relationship does not have room for doubts, confusion, cross-roads, etc., there is no point in waiting it will hurt u more end the relation and then relax, feel the aroma of free world, don't rush for another relationship, wait till u come to know of what u are OK!!!

2006-08-24 21:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by dhansuma 2 · 0 0

YOU are the ruler of your own life. If she's not with you, she's out of your life. Take charge and MOVE ON. There is no other option for men who want to be in control of their lives.

2006-08-24 21:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0 1

give her space if it is meant to be yall will get back together. dont presure her it is just going to make her more "confused". just do your own thing something else might come along you never know everything happens for a reason.

2006-08-24 21:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by johnny d 1 · 1 0

how much of your life do you want to spend living as opposed to waiting?? if she's the right one it'll work out, it certainly wont if you don't get on with things though. good luck

2006-08-24 21:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by xkitenx1982 2 · 1 0

I hate to say it man, but move on because she already has. She probably enjoyed her time with you, but she probably found some one else who more closely in her mind meets and/or meshes with her future goals what ever they may be. Sorry dude, but move on.

2006-08-24 21:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by rms21560 2 · 0 1

em....mayb u could try talking to her , express to her how u feel towards her doing this to u .....see wat the out *** is....

if she still ignores u ..... i think u shld carry on no point waiting for some1 tat doesnt care bout u....

2006-08-24 21:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0 0

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