My ex and I were deeply in love two years ago when I left for college. After six months he broke up with me. He said the distance was just to hard for him to handle, I am seven years younger, and he wanted me to enjoy college and meet other people. Two weeks after he broke up with me he was calling and sending me messages..it was as if he really couldnt let go. I tried to ignore him for a month but then when he said "Are you still alive" I felt bad and called him. We have remained really close friends for the past year and a half..he calls me about every two weeks. I recently found out he has another girl that he seems to just be using for sex...because he told me he loves me and wants to be with me...its just that we are both living seperate lives right now. When I told him I couldnt talk to him anymore he got really emotional...I think about him 24/7 and he said he said that i am also always on his mind...we truely love each other but i am so emotionally hurting inside. any advice?
2006-08-24 21:12:46 · 4 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships do not doom the relationship. It takes a lot of patience, communication, trust and work. I married my long distance relationship of two years and even gone through a 1 year deployment after that .. It is emotional and there are moments that can be extremely difficult. But there can be a happy ever after in the end.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-24 21:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he broke up with you. you obviously have moved on even if it's just a little. just knowing that he has a girl that he's using for sex isn't a good thing. i say you move on and cut him off. why is he tring to talk to you again if he knows he can't handle a long distance relationship. dont let him play with your feelings. you're in college! have fun, date other guys who are worth your time. good luck.
2006-08-25 04:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by timbo345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we really could not..
and if you look closely, are you sure he still loves you?
because if he really loves you, he shouldn't have that kind of relationship to other girls..
it means he moved on (unlike you who still love him) yet afraid of losing you because he is still in what you call transition period.
2006-08-25 04:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by ideal_1500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men really cannot.
2006-08-25 04:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋