What are some signs to tell if a guy is obsessed by you and is dangerous?

Answer 1

Recent experience I had was a guy online, who seemd to IM me on every type messenger, professing his undying love for me, though we never met and he knew I had a bf. He also could somehow override messenger blocks and he found my livejournal, my myspace and all my private photobucket files. He then told me he was coming to my town to see me. It is safe to say, this guy was obsessed and probably not safe to be around. Even my bf had to try to tell him to leave me alone but he would not stop. Finally my work bodyguard told him to stop. He then listened...so far.
If you have a feeling that a guy is getting too obsessed and stalkerish, listen to your feeling! Be careful.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Understand....this is not normal behaviour. And you are at risk
anytime. Because anything could set him off. Especially if he
has a bad temper, and can't control himself. But then there are
the quiet ones.....if they feel trapped in some way, they can
strike out. Those are the ones who never display any anger or
strong emotions. You know if u break up with a guy, and u don't
have any contact w/him, and he starts stalking you, that is
serious. And police must then get involved. That's why I have
never went out with a guy who was jealous and possessive.
EPO's can make him stop coming around and calling u. Or he
gets a free trip to jail. And just be very careful, ya know. I would
move, and even get another job if it was that bad. move out of
town. Don't put ur name in phone book, etc. Remember, abuse
never gets better....it only gets worse!!!

Answer 3

1. Calls you ALL of the time for no particular reason.
2. He has pictures of you covering all of his walls.
3. He has a stalker like profile.
4. Follows you everywhere you go, and you can't even go to the bathroom alone.
5. Doesn't want you to have contact with any other man besides him.
Thats some signs to tell if a guy is obessed!!

Answer 4

Stalking .. not allowing you out of his site, not allowing you to talk or be with friends/family members. Threatening you if you ever leave, if the guy has a tendency of hitting you and/or unable to hold his temper. Listen to your heart and if someone scares you - leave. If they continue and don't take no for a answer get a protection order.

Hugs Mel

Answer 5

Subtle - Checks your phones to see who you call and carries a knife.
Unsubtle - Locks you in the house and watches the door with a machine gun!