my boyfriend always thinks im cheating or lieing. Everywhere i go he has to be there. Everything i do he has to see it. He calls all the time for little things... that annoys me especially when its 1 in the morning. i just want some space. Part of me wants to say screw it. its over. but i dont want to hurt him. Based on what ive said....should i end it..or give it time. it seems like he will never tust me.
2006-08-24 21:08:35 · 7 answers · asked by xelectricxrosex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a possessive, dependent little wus! Dump the dern varmint or you will be stuck babysitting him for the rest of your life. Possessive people suck!
2006-08-24 21:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My close friend was dating a guy very similar. He wouldn't let her go anywhere if there was a 'single' guy there. I think he was affraid they would steal her or she would leave him. He never trusted her. Went everywhere with her and was always keeping an eye on her.
He wouldn't even let her see me, she nearly didnt tell him about my birthday party so she could come alone. But he came with her and they both left asap.
He became very possessive, and even forced her to have sex with him..when she wasn't wanting to. It was not cool at all.
During that time, I lost my friend. I never saw her. When i did, she was always appologising for her bfs anger bursts or what not. Her boyfriend hated me cos i looked like a girl who hurt him in his past.
Eventually....my friend left him. She has never ever been happier. I see her all the time now and she is dating the awesome guy who i believe she will end up marrying.
You deserve someone who treats you right. If you feel uncomfortable in the relationship, then its best that you end it. He will probably be hurt for a little while, and may even try to get you back and make you feel bad. Don't listen to him. He will get over it.
My friends ex, is over it now. He has changed completely, and is a nicer person. But I am glad my friend finally left him, before it got too late...before he actually hurt her...more than he already did.
Godbless and follow your heart. If you don't feel safe....and you dont feel the same about him as you did when you began dating...then maybe its time to leave.
Hope that helps :) *hug*
2006-08-24 21:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out why he is so insecure with your relationship. . .perhaps he senses that it is not all that serious on your part, or some "part of you" (I say this simply due to your question and how it is phrased).
If you want him, work on helping him to see that he has no need to feel this insecurity. . .if not. . then let him know that he had good reason for his fears and tell him good-bye. . . .and that in future relationships he should stick with his instinct but learn to cloak his suspicions a bit.
2006-08-24 21:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it and get it over with.
While you're guarding his feelings, who is guarding yours?
He will never trust you as long as he's so insecure and he'll make your life miserable in the long run.
I've been there and done that, it wasn't fun.
2006-08-24 21:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ways! he loves u soooooooooooo much! even my bf does a bit lik that of urs but c the positive side, as i do. yaar, he cant let u ever on the wrong track. u r so lucky yaar! so possessive. enjoy this warmth sweetheart, he loves like ANNYTHINNG!!
2006-08-24 22:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not trust you there will ALWAYS be problems...trade him in for a 'new and improved' model....
2006-08-24 21:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it.
2006-08-24 21:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by timbo345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋