My friend who's been married 4 17 yrs, w/5 kids, wants me to stop dating her brothers' friend. She thinks it is wrong because if she weren't married she'd like 2 be with him(if it also didn't bother her brother). He was honest from the beginning about the flirting. They kissed once but I didn't know until after he and I started dating. I like him a lot, but we haven't gotten 2 serious yet. . She and I had a rip in our friendship 4 2 yrs because her husband hit on me and I was honest, but she believed him over me. Now, we're on good terms with each other again and I like her as a friend. She said if I continue 2 see him that she'll never be able to trust me again. She also told me that if I continue 2 see him that the flirting won't stop because it's gone on 4 yrs and it's just routine. I'm not sure if this is "the one" but we have a lot in common and I'd like to see where it goes. Should I really consider her feelings over mine? Please help!
2006-08-24 21:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by anewdiamond 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is between you and the guy. If you really like him and trust him, then go out with him.
One thing, though - you both might have to limit your contact with that other couple, because she sounds like a trouble-maker, but it doesn't seem like that would be much of a loss.
2006-08-24 21:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend and not a good wife to her husband. If the guy you like continues to flirt with her, then he's not to be trusted either. Forget about all of them. You deserve to have a good friend who will be happy for you and supports you. You were honest with her and she's treating you like dirt.
2006-08-24 21:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is married. She gave up her right to "mark her territory"
Besides, if he's dating you then he's happy too, right? So where does his happiness come into play? Or does he have no stake in this?
If she's a real friend, she'll get over it and stop interfering.
2006-08-24 21:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy i think u should keep dating him i would not care what she fells because she is married do not think about her feeling think of you own because she is not the one who is going to be alone
2006-08-24 21:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's one insecure jealous ***** ... ignore her, continue seeing the guy and tell your "friend" that if she continues with the flirting, you're going to do your best to seduce her husband to prove what he did before was true... otherwise just slap her!
2006-08-24 21:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the two of you are happy in your relationship then go ahead. She will need to come to terms with it later on
2006-08-24 21:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by E0844 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, after a while trying it becomes just repetitively the same and she will get use to it, but wont let it be more than that
2016-03-27 04:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think deres some kind of jealousy from her towards you.. sure u can date whomever u like ... come on shes already married.. yr happiness is more important..
2006-08-24 21:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on!! Your friend's married!!!
2006-08-24 21:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by escondido_cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. then you can share him with her and she can share her husband with you and you can all live happily ever after. the end
2006-08-24 21:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋