Why are women so selfish when it comes to sex????

Question

I have met countless women who deprive their men of sex. They come up with lame excuses like, "Oh I'm tired" or..."I'm not in the mood", or they are too busy, bla bla bla. Why don't women understand this is one of the most important ways for a man to interact with their women? I personally will give it up no matter how bad I feel. I'll even do it when I'm pissed at him. Know why? Because sex *drum roll* FEELS GOOD! Holy cow!

So I want to know why women feel that taking care of their men's sexual needs are not one of their priorites.

I have met countless women who deprive their men of sex. They come up with lame excuses like, "Oh I'm tired" or..."I'm not in the mood", or they are too busy, bla bla bla. Why don't women understand this is one of the most important ways for a man to interact with their women? I personally will give it up no matter how bad I feel. I'll even do it when I'm pissed at him. Know why? Because sex *drum roll* FEELS GOOD! Holy cow!

So I want to know why women feel that taking care of their men's sexual needs are not one of their priorites.

Edited to Add* Haha, I bet you guys do love me. Being tired is no excuse ladies! Its your job to NOT be tired. Jeez.

**I agree EternalLove, that you have to have a connection and a friendship, but sex is an entirely different plane. Even when there are kids involved, you cannot forget about your husbands/boyfriends needs; your kids will leave you one day, your spouse won't (hopefully!)

**THANKS BLONDIE!!! Men are so easy to please I don't understand why we screw it up.

Thanks for your comments guys, I really apreciate it :) ******

Answer 1

Not every women is like .. plus you also need to remember that usually sex can be more of emotional factor to a woman compared to a man. A lot of factors can go into play @ that moment, hormones? Emotional Connection? Are you getting along? Is the guy a complete idiot and acting a fool of himself? Do you have a child that at that time that needs your direct attention?

Never automatically think that all women do not put their men priorities at the top of the list .. There is a lot more to a relationship then sex and that would include being able to communicate. Being best friends and comfortable in that relationship. Then when you are do have that connection, then sex is equally rewarding and can hold more passion then one can ever wonder.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

This probably is becuase that is how they are raised.

Im not saying its ok, but in other countries if a woman denies sex to her man she is either dead or at least will get a major beat down.

In the USA, sex is so taboo still that some women even feel guilty after they have consentual sex. Then they are convinced by sour old maids that they were abused. At this point, the poor woman feels so bad that she needs a therapist for the rest of her life.

many women dont even (or cant) enjoy sex anymore becuase of this. its all psycological. then they find it easy to be "selfish"

Answer 4

when men ***** about not getting sex it's sickening and when women ***** about all men want is sex, all of you can go drop dead. bottom line is 99.9% of men only want sex and the women want relationships. men for the most part are really selfish pigs when it comes to sex just to satisfy their male ego and they don't care about the woman's feelings. the show 2 and a half men is the perfect example of this and that's why i don't watch this discusting show anymore. this show is all soft porn.

Answer 5

Denial of sex is one of women's greatest power plays. The use of this tool is one of a woman's most authoritative means of exerting control on the relationship. To be in charge of the one one thing that men want most makes it far easier to control details such as circle of friends, recreational activities, and family connections. This gives the woman the power to define the relationship.

Answer 6

It is part of a man's sexual needs to be needed, or even useful. Most men would consider you to be awesome, I believe.

Answer 7

Well those are the women that are usually cheated on.Women like us don't cause we give it to our man no matter what.I'm a firm believer in pleasing my man cause i know that's one big thing in a relationship regardless what anyone else treids to say.I'm sick of hearing women say oh there is more to a relationship than that well why don't they ask there husbands the same question i bet they have a different answer.And that's why when they get cheated on they are like omg what happened and why did you do this.Well you should of turned your a$$ up more and you could of probably avoided it.I'm like you 2 how hard is it to really please a man i don't care if I'm tired or sick or really not in the mood he wants it i give it to him ,it isn't really no big effort i just think alot of women are lazy and don't get me wrong there are men like that 2 who don't really have sex as often complain they are tired or there back hurts but believe me they are few and far between .I don't know many men who turn down getting them some.But if there were more women out there like us there wouldn't be half the affairs going on and divorces,Good for you taking care of your man,If your like me you don't ever worry about yours cheating cause he has it to good at home and they ain't stupid they know its hard finding women like us.SO continue the good work and have a good one!

Answer 8

that's not true. I think my man is a bit selfish. I constantly have to him head. We do screw a few times a month. He is selfish because He only goes down on me when hes high on coke.

Answer 9

well sometimes my husband ask me to ake love with him and i always refuse....because i am now pregnant and sometimes it hurts...
but then my reason sometimes is that he is a construction worker and he needs a good rest..
do u think im selfish?

Answer 10

Because they have other priorities like cleaning, washing, ironing, shopping and bitching about their men always wanting sex!!

I wish you were my woman if that's your opinion ... my wife's pu**y has probably healed up it's been that long since she let me!