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When I was younger my brother and his buddy would always mess with me. I mean infuriate me to the point of dangerous levels. One example of which is when they were smackin me in the shins with metal pipes for almost an hour. I eventually got away and came back to break a broom stick over his head and stab him with the jagged end. I was only 11 or 12 so that should let you know just how angry he got me. That's just one example.

Around the 8th grade I started noticing I no longer get angry at anything. For 7 years the most I've ever been was annoyed or slighty frustrated, things people say and do just dont upset me anymore. Now I'm not sure if I simply out grew getting mad, if it's being repressed or if I just dont feel it anymore(this one I think is the most true since I dont feel like I'm bottling anything up).

What I wanna know is do you think more years of this could be a bad thing?

2006-08-24 20:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by zooba 3 in Health Mental Health

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I'd say you probably have learned to deal with your anger. healthy adults usually do. A few more years of calmness sound like heaven.

2006-08-24 21:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by lee m 5 · 0 0

I am afraid you are repressing your anger and the thoughts may come back to surface and you are going to hurt someone bad...Not feeling anger when you should tells me you are shutting down your emotion...you really should either start praying on it..or please, go and talk to someone...I have known people like this,..and later in life, they ended up really messed up in the head and took it out on innnocents...please, get some help. your behaviour is not normal.

2006-08-24 21:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0 0

i'm no expert,but i have a furious temper.i have gone to anger management. etc...
sounds like you are putting things in proper perspective. don't worry about bottling **** up if you arent bottling things up
this guy at my work picked on me for about three years.just about the time he thought i was a real puss. i knocked his *** around and around. and then i smacked the **** out of him.
i wish i coulda controlled that instance;but it sure felt good to see that ordinarily smartass smile upside down.you have to stick up for yourself.it doesnt make you a violent person.

2006-08-24 21:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0 0

your not ? angry i am . defenseive ,sure . why not . good to keep a cool .don't let every thing go or you'll be worse tword others . keep a moderate temperment on the matter to maintain good stability in favoritism .

2006-08-24 21:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by martinmm 7 · 0 0

I hope this is a joke.

2006-08-24 23:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by blank 5 · 0 0

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