Not a problem - unless you keep the minister waiting
2006-08-24 20:52:16
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answer #1
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answered by Plum 5
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Are u kidding?My parents say I should have many boyfriends and complete relationships before marriage and that I should marry late.It's true, experience is a good thing because if u are not doing fine in bed with the one u love that can be a problem and it's awful that u have to wait till mariage.If there's a problem(it could have to do with health too)and u discover afterwards that would be an even bigger problem.Sex is beautiful, love is beautiful.And when u are for some time in a relation and u want to do it then u should do it.Always protection though!This thing about pre-marital sex is as old as a mummy.Hello?It's been 50 years since the 60's, and even before that everybody did that,the thing that nobody told do it's another cup of tea!People did pre-marital sex,do premarital sex and we'll do it for all eternity to come.Amen
2006-08-24 21:10:24
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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I was originally against it, but today's world is much different from the world our parents and grandparents grew up in. People used to get married right out of high school. That's really not practical now. I think that if people are going to have sex before marriage, that they should date the person for at least a year first. When you don't have sex to muddle things up, you can focus on really getting to know your partner and make sure they're right for you. I dated my bf for 3 years before we finally had sex. While it wasn't practical to wait until marriage, I wanted to make sure that the only person I'd have sex with would be my future husband. The then bf and I are married now.
2006-08-24 21:02:00
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answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4
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I'm am totally against it. When both of you in a relationship want to indulge in pre-martial sex is wrong cause no matter how long you've been in the relationship is still not justifiable. The action of having sex is called 'making love'. As far as i know, when the couple ain't married they're not prepared to show each other the highest love they have which is sex. And obviously if anyone indulges in pre-martial sex with someone they're not gonna marry, it'll be totally unfair for their future spouse cause later there will be grounds for comparsion.
2006-08-24 21:01:30
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answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2
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I am not in for it. Its better to have it after marriage. It kinda builds up the excitment and has something in store for you. Well ofcourse you can always have sexual contacts and foreplays with your partner. Having done pre marital sex, one finds it normal and very common after marriage. But thats the way I think.
2006-08-24 21:06:31
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answer #5
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answered by raj c 2
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Marriage is over rated if you ask me. Love is what it is about. If you love each other then have a blast!! In opinion why do you need to have a piece of paper to make it legal in God's eyes. i know it is in the bible and such... but man made the bible and man has the ability to lie and have faults... that is what makes us so unique..... if you are going to go to Hell for premarital sex then i would think that heaven is a pretty lonely place, especially since 99% of all kids today have sex at or before the age of 14.....
2006-08-24 20:57:40
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answered by John G 1
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Not a good idea.
If you love each other, Wait until after the wedding. Your special night will be so much more special. The person you marry and you will be exclusive in your intimacy with only each other.
Do not cause your future spouse to sin. Do not sin yourself. With each other or alone be pure. You know that sin causes spiritual blindness? That is the worse kind of blindness to have because then you can't make wise decisions to base your entire future on.
God Loves you and his laws and guidance are for your good.
You can Pray with each other before marriage. In fact it is recommended.
If you don't love each other, well that is just plain stupid. To risk diseases, unplanned pregnancy, and eternity in Hell all for someone that you don't love. Crazy, don't you think?
Male or female, you should not give your self esteem the beating that premarital sex will cause.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-08-24 20:56:25
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answered by Anonymous
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For me' I think 1 should wait for the simple reason more and more people get married only to find out that they have married the wrong 1. They let the sex cloud there mind and what they think is love is lust. If you wait you stand a better chance of staying married because the mind is not cluttered with lust there for u are better able to see the person for who he/she is.
2006-08-24 21:15:54
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answered by Sarcastic Sid 4
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According to Bible,Pre-marital sex is sin.
2006-08-24 21:17:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I agree with it because even though no marriage should be based on it... sex is an important part and there are some people you are just not sexually compatible with. When there is no sexual chemistry with the person you're spending the rest of your life with, it can put a damper on other aspects of your relationship. Bad sex can lead to unhappy couples and why get married just to be miserable?
2006-08-24 20:56:19
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answered by sarah_lynn 4
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I think it is depending on different individuals.
For me, I agree with it but the best thing is, do things with planning. Think of the consequences before and after. Don't just do things in a hurry without thinking of yourself and your significant other. Make sure everything's prepared. Don't get yourself in hot soup.
2006-08-24 21:00:15
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answered by MissIndependanceday 3
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