hey....
i need help the guy i like is a friend, and i really like him, but i cant tell him coz he has a girlfriend and she really doesnt deverse him becasue she talks behind his back about him(i have heard her) and he is a really sweet guy. he is a rare type of guy, i know its not my place to get involed but hes a friend i have feelings for him. wat should i do????
{a friend in need}
2006-08-24 20:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by EmmY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were in the shoes of your friend, would you honestly want to know?
As I have said in another answer to a question ... any relationship (friendship or otherwise) needs a strong foundation build upon trust, respect and open communication.
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Personally I probably wouldn't say anything other than to tell your friend that you don't like his girlfriend but because of your friendship you will always support him and stand by his side.
Then I would approach his girlfriend and tell her that I don't like her and why I don't ..... talking behind someone's back is a No-No and you won't stand to hear anymore.
2006-08-24 20:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by iluv2mwah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you will tell him about his gf, he might decide to end the relation with her/ or not.....but you will definitely heart him and I think that your chances of being with him will decrease...
I think you should let them be...let him find out for himself....he should..eventually....and than...when he will be hurt...just be there for him, like a true friend.....and if there is supposed to become more than a friendship....it probably will....but if he doesn't feel the same way about you, if he considers you just a friend....well, at least you have a good friend....
2006-08-24 21:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Delfina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Let him discover this on his own. I know its tough but he will probably not believe you, and end up getting upset with you instead. I would also encourage you date other boys too. Playing the "friend" role with a guy you actually have feelings for is quite depressing...and it NEVER works.
2006-08-24 20:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just keep your mouth shut and let him find out for himself .Don't worry if she is as bad as you claI'm he will get wind of how she is doing him and he will break up with her im sure.So just be patient!
2006-08-24 20:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by might 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just keep your mouth shut and let him find out for himself .Don't worry if she is as bad as you claI'm he will get wind of how she is doing him and he will break up with her im sure.So just be patient!
2006-08-24 20:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh it is hard.... let someone else tell him about his gf and you keep being the good person around him and the shoulder which rely on
2006-08-24 20:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by oriental_dr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard one,try to put hiom in a position whrere he might here what she says or you could tape her saying things about him then leave the tape in his letter box or locker then he wont even know it was you and either will she and he will know the truth
2006-08-24 20:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld tell him to keep an eye on her. drop hints but not obvious ones
2006-08-24 20:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you don't have much time please hurry up and don't afraid about nothings.i can help you more if you really want to know.
2006-08-24 20:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋