2006-08-24 20:39:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honesty and trust
2006-08-24 20:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest. Looks will attract then personality. I look for a well balanced body , Intelligence , well paid, you don't want someone who is after your money. Which has proven to be a big point in what women want in men. And for that matter if you just leave them alone all the money you would spend on them you could invest and retire early. The world is already overpopulated so there is no need for sex except for pleasure. You can hire that out much cheaper than a girlfriend since you will use a condom anyway. So why bother with women in this day and age?
2006-08-25 03:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gotta have boobs and a nice tan. A nice booty never hurts. Also, she's gotta know how to smile. And of course, she's gotta have personality--otherwise nothing else counts.
Why did I put personality last? Well, though personality is the most important to me, I can't put it first because I don't go looking for girls just by personality only. I mean, the girl's gotta have a nice body for me to look at in the first place, i.e, for me to notice her. First I look, then I ask--you know what I mean? Personality is not always obvious to guys because we're more visual-oriented--plus, we don't talk to every single girl we see on the street (to find out about her personality): Once I start to get to know the girl, then I find out if she has a good personality and is ok to pursue.
But, being a breast man, I gotta admit I look for the boobs first. Then the face; then the butt. That's if I'm just looking at a girl, of course. If I consider a girl for potential girlfriend, that's a completely different approach. That's when I look for personality. If she doesn't know how to smile or has a nasty personality--then it doesn't matter if she's hot; she's out in my book.
Also, I've become very keen over the years to a girl's sexuality. If I see that she's had too much sex in her life, I pass. (Yes, you can tell by a girl's actions if she's had too much sex [i.e., the way she walks or the way she talks, or just simply the way she conducts hereself]--or you can tell just by the look in her eye if she's had a lot of sex.) It kind of withers the girl away and makes bags under her eyes. It's hard to explain the "look"--but I know it when I see it. To me, innocent girls are just much more attractive than "experienced" ones. (They don't have to be virgins to be innocent, btw. Just not "too much" sex.)
2006-08-25 03:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first sight I know if she's part of the "doable" group or not, and that is all based on physical appaerance. It is impossible to move into the "doable" group in a later stage.. it might happen in very young age, it happened for me with a girl when she was 16yo or something and she decided to cut her long, messy and untidy hair and go for a sweet short cut that transformed her form a "so so, huh.. no.." girl into a beautiful one.
So anything else beside physical appaerance will get into play after the girl is considered "good enough for sex".
To all the guys that wrote that character or attitude is more important.. only 1 thing to say: LOL
2006-08-25 03:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by kunosayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no formula for beauty, or what u look in someone, it may be anything from hair to toe.One can be liked by, smile. activeness, sense of humour, intelligence, shyness, eyes, lips,figure, face, style, hairs, dressing, voice, way of talking, nature and many more, i cant say what i look in someone. Everybody have some quality, one have to recognize that and improve and highlight that other could notice it, and people will look for u.
2006-08-25 03:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me specifically..... uhh 5'5" - 5'7" deep brown eyes, dark brown hair, thick lips, tan or of asian decent (growl)... must be able to be independent when and if she needs to.... must be able to be trusted as well as show trust.... jealousy is a big turn off... someone that understands that money is not everything in the world even though it is nice to have.... hmm non-suicidal that is a big plus... willing to err hum learn new and "interesting" things.... not afraid to take a chance... someone that likes to cuddle alot... l could go on but i think you get the hint! lol...
2006-08-25 03:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by John G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Is the guy looking for one to mess around with or one to become his wife? Sluts for the former, bright, beautiful, loving ladies for the latter.
It is just the way guys are.
2006-08-25 03:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love girls who can hang with the guys, (like sports etc) has a sense of humor but is also a real woman in the bed room
2006-08-25 03:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a girl who will laugh and talk.
Girls who I have to FORCE to start conversations with are a big turnoff.
Thats me in a nutshell.
2006-08-25 03:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good looking...
but to say the true..
the real guy look at a girl who can be with them in good and a bad time...
2006-08-25 03:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by nil imran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be somewhat confident in yourself. Have good self esteem becuase who wants to be with someone who is scared of herself. Also someone who is funny and outgoing. Someone who likes to have sex obviuosly but thats not everything. Someone that is not going have feeling for you r best friend and have sex with them. That is what i would look for.
2006-08-25 03:44:22 · answer #11 · answered by pazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋