I just go blank and freeze up..not just in person but on the phone..even online on yahoo or msn..I feel stupid..what should I do?
2006-08-24 20:36:40 · 19 answers · asked by some girl u dont know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM Me i willl give u some confidence..if its fine
2006-08-24 20:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pratice, just keep doing it until you feel more comfortable, there are some special techniques that you can try, such as pretending that you are talking with another girl, or that you know the person, say a brother or someone you know well and that doesnt bother you to talk to....and realize that other people are really a lot like you, they get a little nervous also, they just hide it better than you. it is really no big deal, it is only you that has made it such a big deal, but only in your own mind, not to us, or to others you talk with....If you want to know somemore ideas get back with me....relax and enjoy your conversations,, it will get better.I promise....
2006-08-25 03:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this.
For each sentence you talk with guys, give yourself 1 points.
when you make 100 points at the end of day, give yourself a treat like ice-cream or something u like.
Try this for 7 days and see the difference.
Take care,
Karan.
2006-08-25 03:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP! we're not gonna bite! i used to be that way with the girls, and i still am (a little bit). you have to realise and UNDERSTAND that we're not some firce animals or some scary thing! just FREE YOUR MIND when talking, and go with the flow! normally, the guys will take the lead of the conversation, so you just go along and ACT NATURAL!!!
2006-08-25 03:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it up. Just talk about stuff. the weather, your family, school, work, friends, whatever. The more you open up, the more they will talk. If you ask questions and stay in control of the conversation you will get more and more confident.
2006-08-25 03:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to relax and tell yourself that they can't see you,you can't see them, you don't have to answer anything you don't want to and you're never going to meet them so there is nothing to worry about. Just don't put any personal details out for other ppl to see online, but i expect you already know not to do that. :)
2006-08-25 03:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just calm down and just act like as if it was someone you knew for a long time ok dont make a big deal out of it. then maybe you should spend quality time with him and later on you will stop ur nervousness GOOD LUCK
2006-08-25 03:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel stupid or nervous just say what you think. I gets easier the more u do it Contact me if you want to talk
2006-08-25 03:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by cotoneaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel stupid. you just have to learn to relax and open up. online shouldn't b a problem because they can't see u, be yourself but let loose a little
2006-08-25 03:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about what is making you nervous. It seems like a self-esteem issue. I'd try to get more confidence.
2006-08-25 03:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Rico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to find someone u feel comfortable talking with, it sounds like u need someone outgoing to talk to so the conversation doesn't go dry. they always have something to say. :)
2006-08-25 03:52:58 · answer #11 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋