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2006-08-24 20:35:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
Give her time. Some cats are more skittish and aloof than others. I have one cat that won't let anyone pet her - it's taken 3 years for her to let us pick her up and cuddle. She actually prefers to come to me in the evenings - she will sit just close enough to touch my arm while I watch tv (she will doze on the couch, touching my arm with her nose or paw). Some cats never really like to be handled or cuddled, but when she wants your attention she will let you know. Best of luck!
TDK
2006-08-24 22:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tara Dk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a cat like that too... it will take time, ocassionaly give her treats or something, usually they will run up to get it and run away, let her do that and gradually she will see you arent forcing her to do anything she doesnt want to. also you could encourage her by some toys like a string tied to a stick works.. give her time shell come around!!
good luck!!
2006-08-25 03:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, its a cat. You can't keep her home. It wants to go outside so... you can feed it daily and just coax her a bit every day. if it still wants food don't put it anymore (it will never stop asking for food) and just continue coax her, everyday for longer...
2006-08-25 03:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Viper_GP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cat does the same thing. When I want her to come to me I call her and I gove her some food and she doesnt leave me lol. Hope this helps.
2006-08-25 03:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a dog! or try to offer her treats like fish or milk or cat treats. give her time. some cats will neve like there owner and they will hide for ever and there is nothing you can do, thats just the way they are.
2006-08-25 03:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by searay092003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes it takes a while for a cat to come around to trusting you, just be patient
2006-08-25 03:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. cats are smarter than you think. cats make you earn their affection. by you trying to catch her, she thinks you are playing a game. just relax and when she wants to be petted, she will find you.
2006-08-25 03:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by matthew c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cats are like girls. the less attention you give them, the more they want! :P its true you know it!
good thing about cats is they always come back... unlike dogs
2006-08-25 03:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put an open can of tuna in your pocket? (Cats are typically aloof, some are affectionate, but it sounds like yours is aloof. Sorry.)
2006-08-25 03:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can i eat him, i eats cats for dinner anyway feed him a sardines or fish, cats like to eat fish dont worry if he's starving he will always find you cause ur the only source of his food thanks
2006-08-25 03:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋