Or am I a quitter? Don't want to make this long, so in a nutshell, my bf and I have been together for 1year, 2months. Living together for 7 of those months. I dread when he gets home now, I don't have fun around him, I don't feel horny for him. He treats me like I'm 12 years old. I'm bored with him. I'm wondering if we should try to work it out through counseling or call it quits?
2006-08-24 19:24:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you see him making a concerted effort to change I think you pretty much answered your own question. Look before you leap however, I suggest taking a few days to get away by yourself and get your thoughts together and really do some serious soul searching. Remember you get what you settle for. Good luck.
2006-08-25 14:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. He is only in the relationship for the sex.
The only thing men want is sex .
If you move to China a Matriarchal Society still exists there in the Lugu Lake region.
Women live together work together and raise their children with no men. Women chose a man to father their children but the man is not permitted to ever see the woman after his job is done.
This would work well for you and you would be closer to home.
2006-08-25 19:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by 43 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a REASON why you feel that way about him...Why ?
Could it be, ...maybe..he's not the right one for you ?
Change is difficult. But necessary for everyone. It just depends
whether this relationship is worth sacrificing your happiness....
Basically, you'll know .....when it's over. But not until then.
Do you think you two can both make an effort to make it work?
It takes two right ????......
2006-08-25 02:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to try and work it out and go through the counseling and everything because if you dont and you go through it just to try and make things work then truely its not going to work if you dont want to be with him just tell him you dont like how he treats you and things have changed since you guys moved in with each other and you dont know what to do and if he isnt willing to change to help make things work out then you want to call it quits.....just be honest and stand up for yourself because lifes to short dont let someone run your life you run it not him or anyone else..
2006-08-25 02:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have nothing to look forward to. Consider talking with him and determine what ties you two together. If you feel you have really gone separate paths, it may be time to move on. take care.
2006-08-25 02:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ebones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure u no longer love him or u just being bored?
are u sure he's the one that bores you but not ur life/ ur lifestyle living with him?
if yes, then u better leave him. there's no point wasting time for each other. you need to find some one better and he needs to find a girl who truly loves him too.
2006-08-25 02:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's long past time for you to part. Leave as soon as possible. You'll feel a great weight lift off your shoulders as you wonder, "why didn't I do this months ago?"
2006-08-25 02:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him really really really love him try counseling ask yourself this.. Are you with him becasue you are comfortable with him or are you with him becasue you love him, can you see yourself with him 10 years from now or not???
Are you happy with yourself ???
find the ansewrs to these questions & it will help you decide
2006-08-25 02:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treats you like a child? no fun? not attracted. you should be running by now..
2006-08-25 02:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by chris19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask him do he love u and then ask a gain and again when he get mad uyou'll know it's time for him to go
2006-08-25 02:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by TYrine F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋