i just broke up with him because he is being an ***, he is making me cry. girls can i have some advice? plz?
2006-08-24 19:23:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are involved with a drunk dump him. If he wants in then its on your terms. Alcohol is a sickness and drug. I have had the same situation with an ex-girl friend. Drunk every night vile, rude aggressive and no control. Packed her bags loaded her in the car and gave her back to her parents. After 2 months they had her placed in rehab after they got the court to have her committed. She beat up the family priest and a nurse at hospital. Get out before your life is over.
2006-08-24 19:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a girl, but let me tell you, you did the right thing. A mean drunk is a mean drunk. Eventually he will make you cry with physical violence. And that is something noone should be subjected to. Best thign you can do is say good riddance. A man who cares about you wouldn't make you cry, sober or drunk. Good luck.
2006-08-25 02:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by bigbear3635 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad he's just a boyfriend and not a husband honey. You did the right thing to break up with him. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. When he sobers up, reality is going to kick him in the pants, and when this happens, make him prove to you that he's worth keeping around. A simple I'm sorry I was drunk isn't an excuse...he's gotta work to prove it. If he doesn't, it'll be the reassurance you needed to know you did the right thing and if he does try, then it'll stick in his mind that you are not the kind of girl to put up with crap like that and hopefully he won't do it again.
2006-08-25 02:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with him is a step in the right direction. Try not being an *** and get someone who will treat you with respect next time.
2006-08-25 02:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by dumping him. If he is at you house and won't leave call the cops. They will arrest him for public drunk and trespassing. Otherwise just ignore him when he sobers up he may not remember.
2006-08-25 02:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the same old thing but it will only get worse in the long run I've been married a long time and do not kid yourself that they will change for you or anyone , unless is the kinda guy to get help. Its hard to do I know and it will hurt but in the long run you will be sooooooooooo much better off and happy and you deserve that we all do!
2006-08-25 04:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by kjhennekes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab some clothes,some money,call your mom.call a friend.call a shelter just get out NOW. This is the start of an abusive situation Don't let it start! People will help you!
2006-08-25 02:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Pat C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont leave him...girls like you love to be dominated...by the time you realize it you will have 4 kids,working at Jack in the Box and weigh 200 pounds
2006-08-25 02:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you chances are he is gonna call you when he sobers up and he is gonna act innocent and saying he is sorry and he didnt mean it blah blah blah
if he doesn't like you anymore he was probably drunk and cheated on you and needed to fight with you so you'd break up with him...
guys who drink are dumb
unless its a couple having romantic wine...
good luck and dont let dudes fool you... always be smarter...
2006-08-25 02:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girl. go have some fun time with your girlfriends and whenever you're ready to face the dating scene again, try NOT hooking up with a guy in a BAR...
2006-08-25 02:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by chris19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋