been going out withis women,and she said she wanted to get serious so i said ok,but since then she keeps blowing me off telling me how busy she is.I'll call and she won't return my phone call and when i do get a hold of her she says she's really busy and that she forgets,i tell her i'm busy but i can take 5 mins out of my day to talk.Well this has been going on 4 like 3 weeks and now i'm sick of it so i've tried twice now to break it off and she tells me how much she likes me and we should'nt break it off but it always ends up the same way,please give me some advice...
2006-08-24 19:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by angels and airwaves 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl is immature and selfish that is the bottom line. Sounds like she just likes to have someone hang on her because it makes her feel better about herself and gives her the confidence she needs. Either that she thinks it is entertaining. I don't know how old the two of you are, but you need to get rid of this drama in your life and either be alone or find someone who is more mature and less self centered.
2006-08-24 19:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really even going out? Seems like you are barely even talking to each other. If this keeps going on, I would say she most likely is interested in someone else, and is keeping you as a back up in case it doesn't work out with the other guy.
2006-08-25 02:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say what she does for a living.....for all you know she is really busy....bad time of the year...if she really means something, give her another 3 weeks. She cant be busy for 6 weeks .....surely:)
2006-08-25 02:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by springwhiteorchid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off. Sounds like you tried to talk to her but it didn't work. She doesn't know what she wants, but she doesn't want to lost you while she's making up her mind; not fair to you!
2006-08-25 02:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by kajasue123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she isnt going to change then no matter what you will leave her and not look back because ur not going to spend your life with her if its going to be like this...that should work go for it
2006-08-25 02:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break it off, if she really likes you she'll try to re-connect
2006-08-25 02:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋