sometimes i feel like to kill myself or runaway wat do i do to avoid it i tryed almost everything i wiould avoid her then she would get mad i would joke around with then she would be rude she was always selfish but when she got a cellphone she's even more selfish do u have any other ideas?
2006-08-24 18:41:20 · 11 answers · asked by jaz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do not know the whole of your relationship with your sister. Speaking from experience, most sisters fight like that because one is jealous of the other. Even if that has not ever come out before, it is in there somewhere. I for one have never understood why we feel the overwhelming need to hurt one another in anyway. Settling this with you sister is not going to be easy. If she is truly the one who starts it, she is most likely the jealous one who will never admit it, or she may just be annoyed with you because you try to be like her without even realizing it. However, fighting is not a good thing. It leaves scars on the heart that can not be healed. You may be forgiving your sister now, but one day she will go to far. You will lose your ability to still care for her. That caring may or may not ever come back to you. I would try mediation. Try talking to your sister with a mediator. It is important to choose this mediator carefully. Take this time to ask your sister why she does this to you. Ask her if there is anything within reason that you can do to make your relationship comfortable so that you both can live peacefully in your home. Tell her that you want peace between the two of you, and tell her that this fighting hurts you more than physically. If this does not work, there is one thing left to do. Press charges against her. Let her know you are serious about her keeping her hands off you. I am not sure if you are under 18 and still living at home; my thoughts run to your poor parent/s who also hurt seeing the two of you having at it with each other. Also, what intervention steps have they taken to make this behavior stop? You may want to discuss this with them before you get a mediator for you and your sister. I feel for you deeply. Americans seem to be the only culture that has children who fight like this. I wonder if there is a reason for this? LOL. I hope my input will help you. Just remember that under that mean heart of your sister's there is a person worth liking. Perhaps it will all work out and you two will become close. If not, she is just evil and you need to press charges against her if she presists on being physical with you. I don't know where you are from, but here that is called assault and battery. While you may not want you sister to go to jail, it may just take that to make her realize that her behavior is out of control and that she must gather herself and grasp that control by the nape before it lands her in big trouble. Good luck.
2006-08-24 19:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by ktmazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious talk with one or both parents. Tell them u r not
going to put up with her being violent towards you. And you have
a right not to be hit on!! Not by anybody....Tell them you are
going to call the police on her next time she does this. Press
charges. She just may get it in her peabrain. Also, make sure
YOU tell her first. Give her fair warning. Try to make sure your
parents are going to back you up. Time for a Family Talk.......
2006-08-24 18:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my sister were exactly the same. I couldn't stand her. We had a fist fight once as well. It made our younger sister cry. You must just grow out of it cos we are really close now and I'd do anything for her.
2006-08-24 18:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Karley W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just tough it out. siblings can be great but they can also be a real pain, especially while you're growing up. my little sister & i fought like cats and dogs until we were in our early teens and then one day, we just stopped fighting. now we're in our 30s and we're the best of friends. good luck!
2006-08-24 18:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by jew4jah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this and do it only one time belive me its all it will take!!Next time she runs her mouth slap the dog s$$t outta her,then say if you want it again id suggest you keep your mouth shutt im sick of hearing you!!Next time i wont be as light on you next time ill just beat your a$$!Good luck and quit taking her crap stand up for yourself that will just blow her mind cause all she knows is how you keep taking her crap so believe me she is going to keep on dishing it out!Show her your not taking it any longer!!
2006-08-24 18:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best advice for you, if you wanna win these fights that is, is to hit her as hard as ya can in the nose right when she walks into the room with you. everytime she walks in. right in the nose. with all you got. and after you hit her in the nose, follow that with another one right to the nose. after you do this a few times she probably won't wanna walk into any room that you already occupy, ya know?? then you won't have this problem anymore. unless of course you secretly enjoy the problem you have. in that case deal with it.
2006-08-24 18:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by drtyfckr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 5 years then don't go to her wedding. Then she will never talk to you and you can have the last laugh.
2006-08-24 18:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Stan the answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be loving and caring and tell her how much she hurts you physically and not and how much you want to be her best friend and get along great with her
2006-08-24 20:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by yaaks1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yo should seduce her.. wait.. not sexually.. ok?
what i mean is you should do everything to get along with her..
if your desperate enough.. ask your parents to commit her in an asylum!
yeah! that would be great!
2006-08-24 18:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything harmful to yourself sweetie.. just kick her frickin @ss! Best wishes to you.
2006-08-24 18:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋