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I have been looking for the right woman,i know what i want but,everyone i try to mail on the date sites are either taken or don`t reply.
I`ve met a some but,they were married,skint,or teasers,or looking for a visa! help!

2006-08-24 18:37:24 · 23 answers · asked by john j 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

Stop looking. Go about your life being as positive and constructive as you can being YOU. Put your efforts into your work, entertainment that you truly enjoy, and getting out into the community and sharing your talents with those around you. I guarantee that not only will the right woman find you, but she will also fall for you because you aren't focused on finding relationships--you are focused on life. That is what people want in a partner.

If you sit at home on a computer or in front of a television, no "right" woman is going to want to spend time with you. Get out there and focus on a vivacious life and the right woman will fall into your lap.

2006-08-24 18:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by LaNell the Relationship Expert 3 · 0 0

You must have high standards and clearly exhibit high standards old chap. Women want to know that they've "won you over" with more than just their good looks. Let them know that you MAY be interested, that you have a healthy libido but that you can control yourself to wait for a woman who displays the qualities you insist on. If a potential girlfriend displeases you then be very polite but tell her it's not acceptable to you. If she's querky or annoying then tease her about it (in a cocky/funny way). If she's teasing it means she's testing to see if she can control you. If she feels she can control you too easily then you are weeded out of the selection pool because you haven't demonstrated your Alpha qualities.

I'm not saying that you should be a badboy or a bully but you MUST show her that you can take her or leave her. That you're in control. Also make sure you keep the girls who you didn't make it with around you constantly. Let them work in your favour. Pretty much the only thing women respond to VERY strongly is social proof and if you're surrounded with women..........it doesn't hurt to let them wonder which ones you've had sex with and which ones are just friends. That sort of intrigue is a key to getting horizontal with any of your prospects.

Finally, remember....NEVER, EVER, EVER behave differently for these women, buy treats, gifts or give compliments that you wouldn't give to a male acqaintance of similar status. Gifts, dating, compliments are for women you are ALREADY sleeping with. Period.

Viking xxx

2006-08-24 23:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 0 0

Hai John,

To find a right women in todays world its not very easy task.So it will take own time.When right time comes you will surely find your right women.Dont loose hope.God has plan for each & everyone.try to login all the web sites and when u meet a person find out well & analyse them carefuly and proceed.Dont fall in any trap by th teasers,& person who wanted some one to help for Visa coz most of them are crooked & selfish they will do anything & cheat for what they want.My wishes to you.All the best.

2006-08-24 19:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by s s 2 · 0 0

hey you need to stop advertising yourself like a piece of meat, stop with the adverts, single columns. Get out there in the real world be yourself DONT pretend your something your not. DON'T act desperate you may not be remember don't look for a woman, a woman will find you this is true. Is your wants plausible? When your dating it is not like shopping have alist and get it. You may need to re-think you shopping list is your attributes for a woman real? Anyway good luck in the big hard world of dating. LOL

2006-08-24 18:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by jules 4 · 0 0

maybe you are looking to hard, and really at the wrong types of women. You may have your sites set to high, and maybe instead of everything that is on your list of wants in a girl pick the one that is the most important and do a search on that one item. You never know what you can find if you just broaden your search

2006-08-24 18:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0 0

u trying 2 hard just go out 2 clubs n e where and ask 4 sum1s number
she will find u!

2006-08-24 18:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by naomi202 2 · 0 0

you know the more you try to find it the more it will not come out, right woman will come to you in the right time ,it might just around the corner you just don't notice it because you are busy looking at the wrong one.Who knows.

2006-08-24 18:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by 2m's 2 · 0 0

probably u re not the first class material but u want first class ladies. are u rich? if u re not do not even try to find classy women. why would they spend their time on smth useless. sorry dude. and if u want smth u always have to pay for it. u always have to play for pleasure, if u don't pay for pleasure the pleasure gets up, gets dressed and leaves.

2006-08-24 18:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0 0

see some people on the internet and in real life are like that...u just have to try and find the ones who arent like that and i know its hard but if you really want it you will try

2006-08-24 18:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by April 3 · 0 0

cool ! so if you really wanna right woman you should ready for $$$$$$$$$ and make a AD as soon as you will find so much right woman in this world and around you.

2006-08-24 18:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by Abdumalik A 3 · 1 0

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