you can't have a healthy sex life or masturbate! WTF? that's what creates sexual frustration, and pedophiles.
2006-08-24 18:30:40 · 20 answers · asked by funaholic 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
why is having premarital sex bad?
2006-08-24 18:37:01 · update #1
i said pedophiles because of the whole catholic preist thing...
2006-08-24 18:42:35 · update #2
Married so no prob there
2006-08-24 18:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, catholics are not christians regardless of what they think. I am a christian and i am not catholic by any stretch of the imagination. God said that sex is for the marriage bed, thus premarital sex is wrong. He also said that we are to be with only one woman for the rest of our lives and that we would find joy in that relationship. the only reason people divorce each other nowadays is because they cannot work through the problems that arise. some people get married too fast as well. they need to slow down and court slowly to be sure that the mate they have chosen is the one they should be with. there is nothing wrong with sex, as long as it is within the right context. God laid down the laws for our benefit, not for restriction. obey God's laws, and you WILL be truly happy with your life. disregard God's laws, and you will soon be completely miserable.
2006-08-25 02:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by adrian w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time you see that a healthy sex life can only exist in the confines of marriage. Those that wait to marry and only have sex with their spouse report more than a 30% satisfaction level in their sex lives. They also are more than 50% more likely to have a marriage that lasts, that is happy, and doesn't end in divorce. Read "Love, Sex & Lasting Relationships" by Chip Ingman and then come back and ask this question again after that.
2006-08-25 01:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
funaholic,
A Christian is a Christian not because he or she is perfect. Unless you believe a fundy that tells you he is. Come on! You want to believe the truth, whatever it is, don't you? there isn't a Christian that has led a clean life, ever. Jesus was the only one to be perfect.
Christians can have a healthy sex life. So you are wrong there!
Christians masterbate, that's for me. I do that.
Christians can also be sexually frustrated, that doesn't take being a Christian to achieve, and don't tell me that there aren't any Atheists that are pediphiles. I wont believe you.
So I guess you are gullible. Because who else would show up to ask such naive questions? Whoa!
2006-08-25 01:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
People do not turn to children for sex because they are sexually frustrated. They turn to children for sex because they have a mental problem. One could even call it a soul sickness. But sexual frustration does not create pedophiles...nor does it create rapists. What creates these things is hatred, disrespect for life, severe social problems, and so forth.
Anyway, Christians can and do have healthy sex lives. I have no idea where you're getting your information, but it's wrong.
2006-08-25 01:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That is pretty shallow...
I am a Christian and have an amazing, satisfying, fulfilling sex life because my wife and I waited until after we were married and God blesses that beyond belief. But few people know that because they follow themselves and what they want, and not God.
It wasn't easy, but it was worth it. We never tire of each other. How many people that have pre-marital sex do tire of each other? Or have the urge/need to get a new partner after awhile? Everyone right? Because they are practicing their way and not God's.
We ignore God's ways and do not know his blessings.
That's right - he invented it, great God isn't he?
2006-08-25 01:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have a healthier sex life than I did before I was married! In several ways! (Married 14 years)
(Yes, I had premarital sex when I was younger. It was a mistake and I have been forgiven for it.)
2006-08-25 01:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by gracefully_saved 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O my you are crazzy that is not the case but yes it is bad to have cassuel sex it not only destroys the true meaning of sex it will ruin any future relation ships you may have. it is only the catholic church that says their priests may not marry and there is not biblical reason for that it is wrong
2006-08-25 01:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
http://www.layhands.com/IsMasturbationASin.htm
2006-08-25 02:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you know it creates frustration and pedophiles from personal experience?
2006-08-25 01:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Tish-a-licious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because it's not what God attended. Look what we have now what Jesus told us in the book of Revelation that was going to happen. sexual transmitted deceases. We had sex unnaturally.
2006-08-25 01:45:05 · answer #11 · answered by Dragonpack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋