Do all 53 yr old men gawk at 20 yr old women?

Question

My boyfriend brought me some lunch to work today and when my nurse aid walked by him, he stared and stared and was checking her out right in front of me. I saw him mesmerized and I said "thats Candy, my tech" He pretended like he didnt notice her. and actually looked me straight in the eye and said "oh, I didnt see her". What a freaking liar. If he had stared her down any more, he would have fallen down. Do all men Gawk like this and then lie about it or is my boyfriend a lying cheating dog?

Candy is beautiful and if he had not been so obvious, I would have introduced them. I would expect a 53 yr old man to at least be respectful of his girlfriend. Candy certainly isnt interested in his big old gray scraggly haired sagging, wilted nuts.

He is a man allright. He should not be so freaking obvious. His eyes are huge and its hard to miss where they are looking. I hope when I am as old as he is, I still have the desire.

Answer 1

His looking at a female other than you hardly makes him a lying cheating dog.

Answer 2

yes... 53, 54, 55, 56, 57, 58, 59, 60, 61, 62, 63, 64, 65, 66, 67, 68, 69, 70, 71, 72, 73, 74, 75, 76, 77, 78, 79, 80, 81, 82, 83, 84, 85, 86, 87, 88, 89, 90, 91, 92, 93, 94, 95, 96, 97, 98, 99, and 100... if the douch bag can still see.

Answer 3

What would have happened if he had said the truth: "Yes I was checking her out, she's beautiful."? What would you have done then? That is why he lied. Not every 53 yr old men look at 20 yr old women, only the straight ones. But if he's your boyfriend, that is definately rude to say the least

Answer 4

It relies upon completely upon the guy. there is not any one feeling that each and every person 40 two 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous adult men might have some 27 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous lady. some will circulate after a youthful lady using fact of as midlife disaster. some adult men would be finding for a woman they think of they might contreol. Others will experience no longer something extra beneficial than paternal emotions for a youthful lady. nonetheless others will basically be finding for that youthful "eye candy." finally, some might have genuine loving emotions in the direction of her. it particularly is a huge age distinction. some couples could have a healthy dating, some can no longer.

Answer 5

All men of all ages do this all the time. Fortunately, most of us are a little better at sneaking it in than your boyfriend is.

It doesn't mean that he loves you any less or wants to cheat on you. The male mind works differently than the female mind does. We want to have sex as often as we are capable and we fantasize about it with as many different partners as we may find attractive that pass by. It doesn't mean that we would forsake all that we have to get a roll in the hay, though.

It is actually more brain physiology than emotional voluntary choice. Men who are dogs will act on it but most of us will just let the passing fancy move on.

Answer 6

At that age you should realize that men, are...well men. From the day they find out about boobs to the day they die, they are going to look at anything that walks buy them with a nice booty or a nice chest or a nice face and overall body. My point is it's human to look. Women do it too. If it turns into flirting at a point that you can't handle, then you have to talk. I also think it's rude when he does it right in front of you but with his buddies it doesn't really bother me. He should respect you enough not to do it in front of you, which I think a lot of guys have a problem with. Don't be mad at him for looking.

Answer 7

Please don't be so hard on him. Afterall her name is Candy and perhaps she is EyeCandy too. Sorry little joke. All men have a sense of wanting to be young again. I don't think you should be so offended or be taken it so personally. Men do this hundreds of times a day and sometimes r rude to the Queen of Our Hearts and check out a twenty yr old EyeCandy. Forgive us for we do sin too. Afterall is said and done, he was there on your behalf anyway bringing you lunch, let it roll off your back.

Tell him that it does upset you when you check out other women and if he still denies it then resolve it through sex!

Answer 8

I like to think I'm one of the most subtle, smooth, non-chalant guys around, and I don't ever purposely stare or make lewd comments toward women I don't know and I get upset when other guys do things like that. But to be honest, when a fine female form comes into view, I often can't help but look. It's like I semi lose conciousness and am unaware of my surroundings, like my eyes are taken over by some other force, and I almost need to smack myself, shake my head or throw cold water on my face to come back to reality. And I KNOW I shouldn't be doing it. There are guys who blatantly stare, tounges wagging, wolf whistling, the whole 9, and aren't ashamed to admit it. You should be glad your bf isn't one of those guys.

Answer 9

In a nutshell, yes they all do it. Even my own husband has been guilty of taking a few glances. Only instead of getting mad, I tease him. Just make a few comments like "getting a good view of what you'll never get?" Or "Honey, our daughter is that age!" and this one I love "And to think she has a matching boyfriend". It ruins his moment everytime.

I'm sure it's harmless honey, don't assume he's guilty of anything other than simply being a man.

Answer 10

haha, guys never get tired of having a perve no matter how old they are or how young the person they are perving on! men that age normally have the whole midlife crisis cos they realise they arent that 20 something guy that used to get the girl anymore. they are the old bald guy they thought they would never be. sad but true