I am single again, I am just getting into dating again. I am a 43yr old man. I am looking for friend first to just hang out with and then just to wait and see what happens, I have tried online dateing stuff and it just does not help at all. So tell me what do girls look for in a guy, am I asking to much, or should I just forget it all and just wait? This is an honest question, I am just not sure what a woman is looking for anymore, so can any of you older ladies help me out here? I don't want to be pushy, I just want to know whay to do, is that so bad?
2006-08-24 18:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by petey43 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Kansas City
Honest, sincere, straightforward on what you're looking for. Compliments. Eye contact and hand holding like you're attracted to her.
Women hate playing games at this age. Don't talk about your ex. Take them out for a good time. Romantic stuff, nice dinners, a night out dancing. Being friendly with her kids
Good kissing. Not to aggressive too quick, but don't wait too long.
Doing fun things together, take the lead on activites, ask would u like to....
2006-08-24 21:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Genie♥Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stability a man with a good job or career a homeowner or capable of being one a man not to pushy when it comes to the sex dept remember if you dating women around your age chances are they are divorced and more cautious this time around dont just do on line go out to some local places restaurants jazz bars let the little old lady on your corner no you single she may have a grandaughter or no some one who does meeting people through others is the best way .good luck to you
2006-08-24 23:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want anything what they look for is a secure man.
Meaning physically, finacially and with no baggage.
If you have a life then finding a woman is not going to be a problem. If your sitting at home alone most nights then you don't have a life and can't get a lady.
Women are everywhere, where are you?
Take a class dancing, painting, rock climbing or anything you find fun and your passion for that will be shown and women will want to be around you.
2006-08-24 18:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women want someone who appreciate us for who we are. Someone who listens, but who also comes to us when something is bothering them. A good sense of humor, honesty, and kindness are more important to looks. At least to women me. It means so much more to me when my husband cooks dinner, vacuums, or some other such thing than if he brought home flowers. Romance is nice, but I'm a practical girl. Most importantly, be yourself. We want to like a man for who he is.
2006-08-25 01:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Pauleen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like a man who listens to what they have to say, tells them they are beautiful every now and then, makes them laugh, communicates openly and honestly, shares interests and of course is tall and has a big bank account.
2006-08-24 19:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think at 43 you were smart enough to put this in the correct category.
2006-08-25 01:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big Di*ck Big Wallet Big Car Big House
2006-08-24 18:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to be yourself and ask women to dine out
2006-08-24 22:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by hanumistee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women want a baby and nice clothes and fun. if u can provide it you have made it.
2006-08-24 19:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open, trustworthy and truthful always helps
2006-08-24 20:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by emtontherun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋