self confidence?

Question

ive been called pretty ive had boyfriends but for some reason im really self concious and i would like to get over it b/c no matter how many ppl tell me that i look good i still dont think so i cant get my confidence up its not like im fat r have acne r anything... not that being fat and having acne r horrible i just need some tips on how to make me more self confident ...... b/c i think thats its affecting how ppl see me i want ppl 2 c me as a confident person
and that could also affect who asks me out

Answer 1

there are self esteem classes you know

Answer 2

Don't rely on your looks or boyfriends to prove your self worth. Get out in the world and do meaningful things. Be a leader. Give your time to something worthwhile- volunteer, be a community activist, help create positive change. You are way too concerned with which boy might ask you out. When you really develop yourself, you get to choose which boy you want and make every other meaningful decision that will affect your life and future. Don't be foolish. I don't know how old you are or how your parents guide you, but you need someone who is successful to select as a role model. Girlfriend, to give you the bottom line- you are selling yourself way too short when you act and think like you do. No wonder your self-confidence is poor. A good big case of acne might help you grow some character. Good luck to you. You need to get on a different path.

Answer 3

I'm going to tell you a horrible secret that might change your life for the better.

Self confidence starts with not looking horrible. Sure, make yourself attractive, that's important. However, true self esteem does not come from HOW YOU LOOK but what you DO to build it up. So make good decisions with integrity, build up your abilities to take care of yourself, master some skills, work on being gracious and kind, care for the less fortunate, find a spiritual outlet, and keep working to make yourself better every day. You'll find your self esteem will shoot WAY up if you're not trying to get it from your looks or how attractive you are. Unfortunately, although looks are important to attraction, they only do so much and if you concentrate on them too much, you'll become miserable. They are a dead end street because they are superficial and not about real values.

Answer 4

thats not a question anyone can give an answer to but u the only person who can give u self confidence is u that simple or that difficult however u wanna look at it its there somewhere i know what ur going through i have low self-esteem too so i should be listening to my own advice i guess

Answer 5

Hey girl, I sometimes have the same problem. I think all of us, especially girls have this problem at some time or another. Just stand up straight, give people eye-contact and smile. Just remember, God made all of us and He loves each and everyone of us, so we are all beautiful, for everything He has made is beautiful. Be happy with yourself, inside and out, for you are His creation!!!

Most importantly, be yourself, never put on a facade, which guys can find very obvious and is a turn-off. Just be friendly and SMILE!! :)

Good luck & God bless!!! :)

Answer 6

Forgive me for saying so, but according to what you've written, it sounds like you're only focusing on your appearance...

Self-confidence comes from inside. Try thinking about your personality, your talents, your virtues, your opinions, your dreams...

You have the power to become the person you want to be. Once you learn to be true to yourself, the self-confidence will radiate from you naturally.

Answer 7

I think that's a good think. because from a guys persepective when you see a gurl

A cute gurl w/ self confidence means = She's a bit*h, or a hor/ gold digger

Where as a cute gurl who is shy type means = She's a good gurl,, from a good family, and someone you can make your wife cuz you know she is the simple type.

Answer 8

Try the free hypnosis download for confidence from the following site. It works for me!

Answer 9

read some tips on motivation and confidence on this site

Answer 10

Every1 is different. Whether r u pretty or nt is not important, it all abt wat u r in u! Every1 hv a mouth is up to them to say anything they like n it up to u to "buy" it or not. Dun care n dun bother abt wat other said abt u as long as u r hapi. Dun let "thing" ruin yr own confident, b proud of yrslf! Remeber every1 is different!