I have a bad habbit of hookin' up with a guy shortly after I meet him. I really try to take it slow. But it seems like I don't have very good self-control. I know the alcohol is a big part of it... I know that's a sorry exscuse.
Anyways, I know that's why my relationships don't last very long.
Has anyone out there ever had a succesful relationship that started this way?
2006-08-24 18:09:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it is very unlikely. cos the guy, from the start has got what he was after straight away. he has no point dating you to get to that. also he will only see you as one of those girls that hooks up with random guys. why would he want to start a relationship with one of thoise girls. thats just how guys see it
2006-08-24 18:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried not to rush things but i always lose control and yes it is and you know after a while i though that i was not going to be with this person and i showed him that i can be there for him no matter what i maintained myself showing him that even though we didn't slow down but i showed him that i could also slow down and have self control the thing is that people rush things and sex is not all about the relationship that you have with some one, show him that you are a fun loving person, take care of him girl i did and you know what i left my home land and i went to Canada and he sent me a mail girl and an engagement ring was inside he wanted me to marry him. So yes mine started that way.
2006-08-25 01:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hookin up with every guy you meet isnt going to result in a long term relationship with one of them. I suggest you try to stop. Try very hard.
2006-08-25 01:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure relationships can start out this way but if u keep drinking heavily it will probably end.....you will end up cheating or doing something u shouldnt to ruin it. You need to work on ur selfconfidence and self control and u will b fine.
2006-08-25 01:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My wife and I started this way. Study date in college, just kinda happened. Continued till we fell in love. We have now been married for fourteen years, have two wonderful children, and are still very much in love.
2006-08-25 01:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by jeff b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my present g/f this way. Met her on a blind date for drinks and dinner and slept with her on the second date. We have been at it for a year and I probably will marry her. So just keep drinking and sleeping with guys and good things will happen.
2006-08-25 01:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it have happen to me that why now i got an baby out of it but we try to make it and didnt work so i know what u mean just try to find someone else and take it very slow next time u learn from your mistakes
2006-08-25 01:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have but it was luck that it evolved into something serious. Men love easy women to mess around with and who knows you could get lucky too. Be careful out there!!
2006-08-25 01:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had a relationship and i did take it too fast but im going to tell you it wasnt a very good relationship! but be your own judge! everyone is different! ;)
2006-08-25 01:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by J Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with him as soon as you meet him just to get it out of the way.
2006-08-25 01:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋