ok is my ex playing games? please answer i really love him and i dont know what to think?

Question

ok we wentout forlike threemonths then i wentto a party,got drunk, had sexwith my other ex.told my bf the next morning. long story short hedumped me after alot of tears appoogieses and i loveyous he took me back everything went smoothlyuntil the day hebroke it off again.what wasweird thoughwas the night before he was all over me . you know i love you. and i told him i was woried about us breaking up but he assured me he wasnt even thinking about it. well of course it came as a total shock to me. i was so depressed all summer. he said we might get back together after summer ends. that was bullshit. well sure enough i called him.we gotinto a couplethree hoursconversations.about everything it was like old timeswe wereasclose as everfinallyhe askedme outisaid yes iwent to the gym where heworked he ignored me. he ignored my calls afterthat when iasked him about it he just said oh my friends theytease me . so he toldme to callhim thatnight he didntanswerorthenext night. but ireally lovehim

Answer 1

Love your self before getting involved with another man. Loose the LOOSER. It seems like he is playing fetch with you, you don't bark and pant do you?
CUT him out of your life or it will be the end of whatever little self esteem you have left.

Answer 2

With all this drama it has to be highschool right? Honey, yes he played you and he probably did it to get even and make you look like a fool. His friends probably know all about what you did and were giving him enough grief that he finally got you back. Move on already...I'm sure he has. If he really cared, he wouldn't be doing this. And then if you really cared, you would not have cheated. Stop doing the tit for tat and grow up, you have alot of years ahead of you and if you continue to play this game, they are going to be some really hard years for you.

Answer 3

Yes he is playing games. He wants you to suffer for hurting him when you had sex with your ex. He has had time to really think about what you did to him and he can't forgive you.

When you first told him what you did he went into shock and he allowed you to talk him around in order for him to try to feel better.

Now he will never trust you and when he was all over you the night before it was the farewell kiss. My brother did the same thing to his ex wife.

Sorry to say its not going to work out for you guys. Don't waist your time on him any more, he will only keep hurting you.

Answer 4

First of all, if you really did love him you wouldn't be sleeping with other guys. Another thing is that, as hard as it is for you to accept, he might have just slept with you so he could dump you again,and watch you suffer. He's probably telling himself that he deserved to get his "revenge" on you. Hard as it is to accept there are just some sick people who care only about themselves, and he sounds like that to me. I hope that you will learn from all of this, then it won't have been for nothing. First, don't sleep with everyone you like- you just can't do it, you could get aids, and it won't help your reputation either. Second, cut this clown loose, he isn't worth your time. Find a real man who knows how to be honest, both with himself and you. That's the start of any good relationship. Give it time you can get there. Good luck, and God Bless You!

Answer 5

if u loved him u wouldnt have gotten drunk and cheated....dont blame alcohol!! The fact is that he is over you and doesnt want to be with you...sounds like maybe he has hooked up with someone else. Time for you to move on, start fresh and stop drinking so much that u dont know what ur doing...he can neva trust u again!

Answer 6

Men will b all over a woman when they r "eyeing" for sex.... so m i right that u both end up having sex on tat nite?

Gal wake up! This guy is just playing with u! He never got over wat u have done! Move on, dun b a "toy" to him....i m sure u can find a "better" man!

N if u reali love some1 u dun hv to b with him/her, as long as u see them hapi u will feel glad too.....

Answer 7

I actually feel sorry for the guy. there are people responding calling this guy a loser. sounds like they don't know when they have a good man in front of them just like you.