I never did anything wrong to his brother and he always makes smart comments an do things to ruin my life, Im sick of it. He's in one of my college classes and he made a smart remark and made it possible for me to miss out on a opportunity to obtain a school book, Im thinking about just leaving my boyfriend, what should I do, I already tried talkin to him about it and nothing works, his brother still keeps on. I mean even his parents know, they don't believe it so its like the whole family is against me, what should I do?"
2006-08-24 18:04:43 · 22 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First confront him with your boyfriend... If he's any kind of man, let him deal with it, up front. other than that... F the brotha... He probably wanted you and since he can't have you he figures no one will... Your just an easy target. Don't let him get to you... Just smile as if he just gave you the greatest gift ever. Never run... Fight for what you want. You'll feel more in control and it'll drive the brother nuts. Good luck!!!
2006-08-24 18:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by casual247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you is that when someone marries a man, you married into his family too. so if you think you can't put up with his family then its best you clear it with your Bf on this issue. If he does not do something about it then he is not worth to pursue over since your feeling obviously means nothing to him . Plus divorce rate is high so don't chance it that you will have ahappily ever after fairy tale if the situation is already so bad at such an early stage of the relationship.
2006-08-24 18:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Arzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my baby's father went through this. although it was with his sister though. we were friends in school never got into it at all!but then when i started dating her brother she all of a sudden didn't like me anymore and i didn't understand why.but if i were you and you really care about your boyfriend i would stay with him no matter what! no one has to like you but him! i would also avoid his brother as much as possible! i know that might not be possible considering you have a class with him. but just try to ignore him as best as you can. don't let him bring you down cause that's what he wants to happen. never let him see you sweat! but if all else fails then just evaluate the relationship and see if its all worth it or not. in my case it wasn't but i found out too late! good luck i hope things work for you.
2006-08-24 18:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you dating, the family or the guy? If he doesn't stand up for you, then it's not worth your time or energy and you should call it a day. Tell him you are interested in dating a man that will stand up for you, even against his family and if he doesn't have the gonads to do it, then you're sure you kind find one that will! Life's too short and you deserve better!!
2006-08-24 18:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him again. If his brother doesn't stop, leave him. He should understand that if his brother is going to ruin your life, then you had no choice. If you're already having second thoughts, then you don't need to come to anyone. There will be other people.
Best Wishes! :D
2006-08-26 01:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore his brother as best as poss, like the other post said your not dating his brother your dating him, why don't you try talking to your boyfriend about telling his brother to knock it off, if it still doesn't work just take it as his brother is being immature and shrug it off or try asking the brother why is he being this way.
2006-08-24 18:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the whole family is really against you . then you and your boy friend will have to move on with out them. and that will bring up a whole lot of other problems. you need to work this out now. have a family meeting with all of them. lay it on the table. if they really are all against you. you can at lest tell your self that you try ed.
2006-08-24 21:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is bothering you so much and you still can't get any support, especially from the boyfriend, I would suggest you relieve yourself of the relationship. You're gonna have to get some body's attention.
2006-08-24 18:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares whether your b/f's brother likes you or not? it really shouldnt matter what he thinks....he has no part in the relationship...its between you and your b/f not you + your b/f + your b/f's brother....just remember 2 is a couple 3 is a crowd so make the third wheel fall off...just tell him straight up how it is and that if he dont like it its just too bad....and dont let him interfere
2006-08-24 18:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him much you have to solve this problem and clear all the misunderstanding before you step into marriage. coz marriage are not to unite two people as one but two families and their with all complex problem. so do not continue the relationship in this misunderstanding which will put you in much troubles and hurts you in future.
2006-08-24 18:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋