He never says whether he wants me to be in the same city with him, once I asked when he emailed me checking, he just said, "go whichever appeals you most" What does this mean? He just keeps emailing me saying "how is your job searching going, be sure you are looking, it is really important!" I graduated from a Top Univ and already got job offers in the city he is currently living now but I dont want to start work since I have other plans going on, also I am afraid to be in the same city with him even though that is largest city! I guess we do not have any chance to get back together, I got too much hurt and headaches. But his frequent checking makes me wondering-should I just cut off contact with him once and for all?
2006-08-24 17:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him its non of his business.....
2006-08-24 17:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are divorced he has no business being in "your" business. If you have children he may be wanting child support if he has custody of them. If he has to pay bills that you jointly made he may want to have assistance paying them, possibly take you back to court? The best thing if you have heart ache and pain from this ex is to END IT NOW!! You can find a new friend that won't be such a sore of memories. Good luck
2006-08-25 00:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by imokey_61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-25 00:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by pink_tequilarose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off contact. He sounds like one of those ex's that goes stalker! It's not of his business if you're job searching, looking, or not. He isn't your boyfriend anymore... so he needs to back off.
2006-08-25 00:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUT THE CHORD; PULL THE PLUG;; AND RUN LIKE HELL; YOU DON'T SOUND LIKE YOU NEED HIM; AND I'M SURE YOU HAVE A DADDY;; I'D SAY HE'S WAITIN' FOR YOU TO GET A GOOD PAYIN' JOB SO HE CAN SIT ON HIS *** AND LET YOU DO ALL THE WORK;; TELL HIM TO MOVE ON;; YOU CAN DO WAY BETTER; AND HE SOUNDS TO MUCH LIKE HE'S STALKIN NOT TALKIN;;;
2006-08-25 00:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by acelalagagoober 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spoil ur future for him do whatever u want do to because this is the only time when you can do something after marriage u will not get this chance to do somthing whatever u want to do
2006-08-25 00:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by munmun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, maybe you should go to a different city.
2006-08-25 00:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's only one way to find out if she really loves you or not,,,,confront her, "do you really love me or not, i don't want to waste my time, i want people to love me for what i am not for what i can do or what i have, if you cant accept me for being me, i think we have to end this relationship."
2006-08-25 00:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by manuelcojr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋