2006-08-24 17:28:38 · 19 answers · asked by at_2907 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't matter.
if you're in love, that's all that counts.
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2006-08-24 17:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hollywood™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this can be an issue to a lot of men, especially if they have a big ego, I've seen it happen many times and have had negative results with dates, because some people end up feeling intimidated and even though they didn't want to show it, it always ended up weird, they couldn't handle that I made way more money than them and ended up not calling again, after seeing how I shopped, lived, dressed, the car I drove, etc., I think it's ridiculous people have to look at this in a negative way, and it does affect relationships, I'd like to find a compatible person, but so far haven't.
2006-08-25 00:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's something you and she have to talk about and decide. And it may come up every once in a while and you may want to think about it again when it does. It depends on a lot of things. What you want out of life, what your values are, etc., change as you grow. Just be truthful with yourself and when talking to your gf. If you have good communication, I think it could work. It might be difficult at times, but it depends on the individuals involved.
2006-08-25 00:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the money that matters. It's the background and class and cultural differences. This can be difficult. I once dated someone whose family thought they were above mine and therefore, disapproved of me. They, then he tried to change me - the way I dressed, my education level. I resented it, resisted it, then left him. I hope he's very happy with his stuffy life. Not for me.
2006-08-25 00:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problems really show themselves in living life. My husband pays the price for my inability to pick up after myself, my inability to work and save up for and patiently get something (instead of what I do have which is the ingrained need for instant gratification and the overuse of credit. . .).
Anyway. . . stuff you don't think about til it happens I guess. . .
2006-08-27 14:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't care about the money. you only need it to survive. like enought to put clothes on ur back and food on the table. if you have more than thats fine.
me and my guy don't come from famillies with alot of money but we are in love so we don't care.
2006-08-25 00:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty loaded when it comes to money, but my boyfriend is dirt poor. It doesn't bother me at all. I couldn't care less about the money so long as we're happy together.
2006-08-25 00:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Donnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
status doesnt matter when both are attracted to each other, i've seen girls constantly buying things for their guys and their guys are basically living off her like a parasite yet they claim to be together
2006-08-25 00:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her or him,don't think about your status.. What is important you are in love with each other..
2006-08-25 01:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that if she is rich and ur poor, and she still is with you and having fun then its a good thing cause she dont want u for money or n e thing. she want u for you, so dont let it get u down.
2006-08-25 00:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF she loves you and your beat'em up correctly in the bedroom. It will never become an issue.
2006-08-25 01:21:51 · answer #11 · answered by Imrickjamesbeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋