I recently started seeing this beautiful lady and don't want her to think that I am trying to win her over by 2 lil' boys but I have a my lil' princess and play with them just as I would with my daughter. Is there a boundry, or should not worry about it. I've made it clear to her that there dad is there dad, but really do not want to over step my boundries as her B/F.
2006-08-24 17:26:40 · 3 answers · asked by B.D.G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can honestly say to yourself that you are doing nothing different with you girlfriends boys, than you would do with any other child, then I say that you have nothing to worry about.
If you want to take a extra moment to evaluate things as they happen, I think that would be a good idea. Just take a extra moment to make sure you are doing the right thing for the right reason.
When it comes to discipline, you let your girlfriend handle her boys and you concern yourself with your daughter. The only time I would say you should say something to her boys in that manner is if it is a emergency/safety situation, otherwise let her handle it.
2006-08-24 17:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always lived by the rule, Children and Dogs know!!! That means if children and dogs accept you without boundaries, then you are a good person and the rest will follow if it is meant to be. Children are our most important resource, and if you can care for them as they were your own, then everyone will see that and so will she. As long as your are willing to remember they have another parent and stress the importance of that fact, then you lady friend should have no problem. Good Luck, everyone needs someone, and children are so wonderful.
2006-08-24 17:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by winteroneca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Ask her what level of contact she is comfortable with, and go from there.
2006-08-24 17:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋