my boy just left for college, and the girl he liked for the last couple months has been callin me and talkin to me alot... i kinda like her, but am comfortable with being her friend... but she wants to talk to me all the time... and tonight, she didnt wanna come hang out with me and my friends, yet wanted me to call her when i get back home... sounds kinda odd to me... i havent called her since i got back, should I? does she seem to be inteerested in mroe than a friendship to yall?
2006-08-24 17:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, not my son, my friend... "boy" as in good friend, sorry for that
2006-08-24 17:31:21 · update #1
She's opening the door for "some reason." I'm not sure what she's really up to - you know her better. What about your buddy though? How would he feel. If you're not sure, just keep it very casual til you can find out more of her motivations.
2006-08-24 17:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is only interested in a friendship if most of her calls are about your friend. That would make sense seeing as she didn't want to hang with you... she probably feels lonely and has no one to talk to on the phone and wants you for some support.
I think if she liked you as more then a friend she would probably try to approach you or at least take every shot to hang out with you that she could; and since she didn't, I am sure she just wants to be friends.
2006-08-25 00:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only speculation whether she only wants a friendship or more. Must she hang out with your friends and if u categorise love as hanging out with your friends, then u stand corrected. Love occurs with two individual and not with a group. If u like her then reveal your intentions. Ladies hope that man takes the bold step so its for u to make the approach. Yes or no for an answer is no loss to u. If yes, then cherish it, if no, then u are free to make a choice elsewhere
2006-08-25 00:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is too young to have anything in common with you. Gently tell her to find friends her own age. There is a good chance your son will move on with his life and not come back to her. Then what are you doing to do?
2006-08-25 00:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question has some holes in it. Are you asking if she likes you more than the guy? Or are you asking if she is using you as a way to get closer to this boy. Who is this boy you are talking about that just left for college?
2006-08-25 00:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by jugger0418 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like one of two things:
1. She misses your friend and feels closer to him by being around you.
2. She's interested in you and wants to see if it will go anywhere.
**Be careful with this situation, run it by your friend if anything seems to be hitting off to see where his opinion lies**
2006-08-25 00:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mudmutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "my boy" I hope you mean your friend and not your son. If it is your son, you should be ashamed of yourself and find someone your own age. If you mean your friend...well then...she wants sex. She doesn't want to be your girlfriend...she just wants some attention.
2006-08-25 00:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm so she likes you as a friend try some tips on this site on how to make her like you more than that
2006-08-25 00:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup... you should ask her.....
may be she just wants a company to talk to n all that... are you attracted to her?? if yes... no harm in telling her.. may be she is shy to make the first move....go for it... there is a good chance that she enjoys talking to you... be smart.. make the right choice and she will end up yours :)
2006-08-25 00:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Daemon K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she does stay clear from her she gon mess up ur friendship with ur friend
2006-08-25 00:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋