When I first got with my guy,I was under the impression that him and his baby's mama weren't together, that he was just there for the kids. I wanted so badly to believe him! So, just recently her & the kids moved in his dad's house.
Supposedly, him & the wife had a place together a while ago and she had took off and he didn't know where. Now, he discovers they had been in a shelter and so his dad took it upon himself to move her & the kids in his house.
Anyways, it's almost 2 in the morning & I get a call from the wife. She's trying to find out where her baby's dad is. Then we get to talking and she tells me all this stuff about how he had been cheating on her for the 9 years they were together.
Now, my guy's constantly told me that they weren't together because of her bad attitude, and he was very unhappy w/her and the sex was bad. But she tells me that their still together and still having sex. Then she brings up the fact that he's sleeping with another female...
2006-08-24 17:23:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, I talk to him the next day & he's tellin' me not believe her, that she was just trying to ruin out relationship. and of course he has his buddy there, backin' up everything he said. I don't know who to believe. I don't like being made a fool of. I want so badly to believe him. But at the same time, I kinda believe her. I have serious trust issues when it comes to men & situations like this aren't helping any. HELP!!!
2006-08-24 17:26:54 · update #1
Leave Him.
You need to let go.
It doesn't matter who is telling the truth because you don't need the DRAMA!
This is all that is being given to you is baby mama drama. You don't need the extra drama in your life, I am sure.
Anyway, if she called you looking for him, I am pretty sure that he still messes with her. She might over exaggerate on somethings out of jealousy but some of the things your man says seem a little out of whack.
I am going to advise you to let go of this man and move on. You shouldn't stick with someone who causes so much crap.
2006-08-24 17:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooo god! i just took myself OUT of a situation like this...and im telling you, whether you believe me or not, guys always stay fcuccckn their baby mommas! i dont know why....but im promising this is true! you need to end this, because you are going to get hurt. i was with this guy for a while and i heard the same things, his buddy always backing him up in the backround while i was on the phone with him, or if i was hanging out at his place. i got hurt...and its not a good feeling, i think you should end it, QUICK!
2006-08-24 17:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by J Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read some dating tips on this site on why men lie and cheat
2006-08-24 17:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by john 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a built in defense mechanism designed to allow for multiple partners.
2006-08-24 17:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask a third source? ask the dad if they're still together. if they are, then he's cheating on you. goodness, if he has cheated on his wife what makes you think he wont cheat on you?
2006-08-24 17:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by poopermon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i have been there done that. Just go with your gut instinct if you think hee is cheating then he most likely is.
2006-08-24 17:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by itsa_pinkthing7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two things 1.) cant believe i am even bothering b/c drama is so not my thing and more importantly 2.) You so right cause chicks never lie NOT!!!!!
2006-08-24 17:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got this question on your mind??
i've got it already since i know men!! *lol*
They do and nothing can change them... *sorry*
well, many people say that if we trust them then they dont lie.. ??????
Girl, leave that man!!!!!
2006-08-24 17:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by dayBYday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to check into that because all men's friends lie for them i just hope i'm wrong about this well good luck...
2006-08-24 17:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all black dudes lie like crazy get used to it
2006-08-24 17:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋